louisaL

it buggers everything up

i just dont know when i will ovulate and i would never know if i was late for AF
why is it never simple!

DaisyDuke

I know exactly how you feel hun, i have no idea, and not had a proper since coming off the pill either. I have no idea so just bd every other day. Good luck.

louisaL

thats what we're doing too well do when DH doesnt give me the 'i'm too tired' excuse. its sooo frustrating it seems like extra pressure that we just dont need.

sjnams

Yup, I know how you feel girls!! I am CD 43 of a god knows how long cycle. Started of good and enthusiastic with the BD sessions but there is only so much non stop BD that you can do!!
I feel like I am the one letting us down as a couple trying for a baby, we have everything going for us apart from my crappy cycles since coming off BCP.

DaisyDuke

I wish we had started trying 2 years ago now when we got married and bought our house, i mean what were we waiting for, would have taken all the stress out. My poor DH dare says he is tired i go mad, don't know how he puts up with me, certainly taking the fun out of bd.

louisaL

everytime i speak to my DH its about babies at the moment. i said to him i want a baby yesterday and he told me he knew i was going to say that how bad is that LOL

beaver

I know exactly where your coming from im experiencing it as we speak. My periods have never been the same since a miscarriage 3 months ago, im due my third AF since and my last AF was on CD29, im now CD31 and apart from a couple of spots its not coming! ive done numerous HPT's which was a waste!

i only started temping this month so that hasn't really helped. I wish my body could go back to how it was before this miscarriage messed everything up

im going to start taking evening primrose capsules next cycle as apparently they can help sort your cycle out

DaisyDuke

Exactly the same in our house hun, i'm driving him made, i genuinly think it's all i think about. How long have you been ttc?

Sambatiki

Im with you all. My 2 's that I have had since MC have been 28 and 33 days.

How on earth are we supposed to know when to !!

Hope we all get back on track soon!!! Even better a !!

celine

Im thanful to FF cos when I filled in the stats from the the last 6 months I realised my cycle is longer than i thought. I like that it tells me my average and max times etc. I now know Ive been bding at the wrong times, then at O-time im too tired!

I feel bad to burden dh about babies when he has so many things on my mind tho it really is an obsession.