ill just start by introducing myself, my name is Bev and im 28, been with partner for a year and a bit. Have been a lurker for ages but never had the guts to come on before as you all seem quite a tight (but lovely) band
my story goes something like, we decided last summer to start trying for a baby, my OH has two boys from his previous relationship. After six months of trying i finally got a positive preg test on 30th Jan, i then went on to have three minor bleeds and three scans with the hospital which were all fine, baby was there with heartbeat, just turned out to be a minor bleed.
however on my 3 months scan when i was actually 13 weeks, there was no longer a heartbeat and the baby had measured 11 weeks. I had an ERPC on 4th April, my first period on 12th May which was extremely heavy and clotty, another one on 10th June and am awaiting my next one.
I am temping first time this month started mid cycle, am taking my vits and will start EPO on next cycle as i think i still have hormonal probs
All my periods have been weird since miscarriage, last month i was actually picking up positive preg tests day cd17! i had a hcg test done then (end of May) and it was 5.
This cycle has been equally weird, according to fertility friend i ov'd cd21 (they cant be sure as i only started temping from CD19), and they class me now as 9dpo. Im now CD30 and did a preg test this morning and nothing. I dont know whether im late or not as they've not been regular since miscarriage and before pregnancy i was averaging 32 days. However yesterday i felt something come out, ran to the loo thinking i had come on but it was watery red/brown stuff, i logged this on ff and they said it could be implantation spotting. Had nothing since.
For the past week or so ive had period type pain and back ache, which i noted as i dont normally get period pain so far in advance of AF! My temp has gone up since Ov but in past two days has come down slightly. since my watery stuff yesterday all period pain and back ache has gone and i dont feel neither pregnant nor due to come on!! not sure what to do now but guess i just have to wait it out