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Jul 8th, 2008, 14:50 PM
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I'm Currently Feeling:  | Hmm... wondering...
Hi girlies!
I'm just posting one last thing b/f I get off for the day, actually in follow up to what Miel posted earlier... So, SJ found the statistics that
25% pg in 1 month
65% pg in 6 months and
80% pg in 12 months
Cool. Now what about people like me? I had a m/c in March, i.e. I got pg after 3 months of trying. Does that mean that in March I should count myself back at square 1? Like, we've now been trying AGAIN for 4 months??? ... I don't think I can handle ANOTHER 8 months of trying!!!! AAAAAAACK!
Maybe a dumb question...  but... whaddy'all think?  |
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Jul 8th, 2008, 15:15 PM
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I'm Currently Feeling:  | Not a dumb question. Not sure what the answer is though.....  |
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Jul 8th, 2008, 15:18 PM
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Jul 8th, 2008, 15:21 PM
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#4 | | 1st time bfp Chat Happy BnB Member
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I'm Currently Feeling:  | I have been pondering those statistics myself lately..the stats I read also said 90% within 18 months, so I guess what sjnam said is true you could very well be closer to your bfp *crossing fingers for you* | | | | Status: Offline
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Jul 8th, 2008, 15:22 PM
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I'm Currently Feeling:  | a very good question in fact!
i had a mc in March too.....that would have been month 11 for me....
so do i have to retstart now?!!?   | | | | Status: Offline
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Jul 8th, 2008, 15:25 PM
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I'm Currently Feeling:  | Not a dumb question at all, not sure of the answer though! I tend to agree that you shouldn't go back to square one! |
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Jul 8th, 2008, 19:13 PM
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#7 | | Preggers After MC Feb 08 Chat Happy BnB Member
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I'm Currently Feeling: | Think about it this way- the reason they say you're more fertile after a mc is because a) you've proven you are- duh!  and b) because your body is usually more primed now as its already been pg..it knows what to do, if this makes sense..?
(Many women f.ex become pg naturally after failed ivf..again because their bodies have gone through all the hormones etc..)
thats my take on it, and im sticking to it (and- i was told this by my friend who mc on ivf in jan..thats what they told her) and im like you..mc in feb after 4 months of trying.. and I'll be damned if im gonna go back to zero- bring on the BFPs!!! LOL! |
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Jul 8th, 2008, 19:16 PM
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#8 | | Trying to conceive (TTC) Chat Happy BnB Member
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| Gr8 question. I've always wondered this, if every I got a BFP then m/c. x |
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I'm Currently Feeling:  | i don't think you should go back to square one ...a lot girls here did have MC as well but a lot them are in the first semester now... |
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Jul 8th, 2008, 19:37 PM
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I'm Currently Feeling:  | i agree with the other girls, you got pregnant once already and even though you mc, it provs you can get pregnant, so it doesn't put you back at square one at all!
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Hope that helps, but it is just my opinion and my interpretation of the stats that are out there. 
