porkpie1981

should u visit the docs. was due yesterday but more likey the day b4 so tomorrow i will be 3 days late! Im never late(give or take mybe a day) apart from 1st after mc bu thats normal. I felt preggers last week due to heaviness on my bladder and the whole boob stinginess but the boob thing isnt really as bad now.

I really dont want to look like a hypocondract as i was only there not long ago about mid cycle bleeding and she said that it was just ovulation bleeding that can start afetr a mc as it mess's ur body about.

I have done a test every day and tbh im really getting sick of it and just feel like crying I feel like a need a few glasses of wine but wont as hadsnt appeared

Tanya

hi hun - well you know my story - was about 3 days late so maybe wait until you are a week late, test again and if still BFN go to doc for blood test... I know how hard it is waiting.. but you will know in a week or so... good luck hun!!!

tansey

I wouldn't go the doc if you are getting BFN and only a few days late. There are not a lot of sympathetic docs around (they're all too busy). They'll only do a urine test which you do at home anyway. My doc said they do bloods if you are over two weeks late and it depends on other circumstamces as well.
Hold on a bit - good luck!

porkpie1981

thanks girls. This is what i wanted to know as i dont want to look like a nutter showing up too early

So what do u think 1 or 2 weeks?

thats if the hasnt arrived of course

shalagirl

With my doctor ur have to make the appointment ages b4 u can see them. DH phoned doctor 4 me about me sea sickness/jetlag on Mon 30th June and they said I couldn't have an appointment till Wed 9th July!!!! U could make the appointment for a week or two away and then cancel it nearer the time if u need to - at least u'll know u have an appointment lined up.

Rumpskin

I would wait a week Porkpie

rachelle1975

Hey PP - i really hope that this is it for you!
I know it's driving you loopy so why don't you just limit yourself to 1 POAS per day?!?
I take it being late is totally out of character!!
If you are you had better sprinkle some babydust on me please missy!! x

porkpie1981

im only doing 1 a day now as its really annoying me now. My docs can get me an appt in say a few days so im not bothered by that.

My cycle was 28 days on bcp then had 1 31 day cycle then got , then had D & C and took 5 and a half weeks for 1st af(tho ignore that as thats normal). Then had a 32 day cycle and tomorrow i will be cd 34

The thing is i had the boob syptoms(tho not as much now) but stil got the bladder heaviness

Ersurgeongirl

i would wait a week, and if no then id go get the blood work done

tiggertea

Hey pp.
If your docs in bfast are anything like ours down this direction of NI it will be well near impossible for you to get an appt. I'd try to book one for a couple of weeks away - if you don't need it you can always cancel! the alternative would be to hold out and try getting an appt on the day when you decide "enough is enough - i need to see doc!" but do try to wait another week or week and a half or so! (easier said than done obv!!)