i give up

lillysmum · Jul 4th, 2008, 13:07 PM

about 5 minutes ago i expressed that i was worried about getting a negative result. The OH says that he feels like I am calculating this too much and being too controlling when it comes to BD on the days i'm calculating as more fertile

I thought that he wanted me to be pregnant and that we were close enough to talk about stuff like this....

He says he wants nature to take it's course and that he doesn't want to plan it...

Feeling very emotional right now

wishes · Jul 4th, 2008, 13:13 PM

Oh hun

I think sometimes they just feel like theres a bit too much opessure on them if we know that everything else is pretty much sussed... they get freaked out and panic... dont worry yourself, im sure he wants a baby just as much as you.

SJK · Jul 4th, 2008, 13:25 PM

awww chick, dont be getting upset, that is exactly what mine said, they are all the bloody same, they dont understand !!!!!

xxxx

Karilynn76 · Jul 4th, 2008, 13:43 PM

dont read too much into it hun, he just feels like he is not wanted other than to make a baby. just try not to talk too much about it it may turn him off. good luck!

lillysmum · Jul 4th, 2008, 13:46 PM

tbh i also think i am just being a bit more emotional today which is making me be a little bit more sensitive to these things.

Lu28 · Jul 4th, 2008, 13:46 PM

DaisyDuke · Jul 4th, 2008, 13:46 PM

Don't worry sweetie, we only started ttc June, but knowing my DH those same words are round the corner. Just stick at it.

NickyT75 · Jul 4th, 2008, 15:14 PM

Aw don't be upset sweetie

men just don't seem to understand that it's not quite as simple getting pregnant as they think.

I know it's hard not talking about it but as someone said above... try not mentioning it to him as much so it doesn't turn into a big deal & get blown out of proportion.

You can always come on here and talk to us whenever you wanna talk about things tho xx

porkpie1981 · Jul 4th, 2008, 15:53 PM

me and my oh where arguging about this and the fact that i spend to much time on here

saraendepity · Jul 4th, 2008, 16:07 PM

i second nicky... and evry one else tbh !!!!!!!
hope you are feeling better hunni

xxxxxxxxxxxxxxx

Jul 4th, 2008, 13:07 PM	#1
lillysmum Mum (Mom) BnB Addict Join Date: Feb 2008 Location: Dundee Posts: 3,825	i give up about 5 minutes ago i expressed that i was worried about getting a negative result. The OH says that he feels like I am calculating this too much and being too controlling when it comes to BD on the days i'm calculating as more fertile I thought that he wanted me to be pregnant and that we were close enough to talk about stuff like this.... He says he wants nature to take it's course and that he doesn't want to plan it... Feeling very emotional right now

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Jul 4th, 2008, 13:13 PM	#2
wishes Pregnant (Expecting) Chat Happy BnB Member Join Date: Jan 2008 Posts: 1,552	Oh hun I think sometimes they just feel like theres a bit too much opessure on them if we know that everything else is pretty much sussed... they get freaked out and panic... dont worry yourself, im sure he wants a baby just as much as you.

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Jul 4th, 2008, 13:25 PM	#3
SJK Mum (Mom) BnB Addict Join Date: Jan 2008 Location: U.K Posts: 4,039	awww chick, dont be getting upset, that is exactly what mine said, they are all the bloody same, they dont understand !!!!! xxxx

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Jul 4th, 2008, 13:43 PM	#4
Karilynn76 Mum (Mom) New BnB Member Join Date: Jun 2008 Location: Dartmouth Nova Scotia Posts: 8	dont read too much into it hun, he just feels like he is not wanted other than to make a baby. just try not to talk too much about it it may turn him off. good luck!

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lillysmum Mum (Mom) BnB Addict Join Date: Feb 2008 Location: Dundee Posts: 3,825	tbh i also think i am just being a bit more emotional today which is making me be a little bit more sensitive to these things.

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Jul 4th, 2008, 13:46 PM	#7
DaisyDuke Mum (Mom) BnB Addict Join Date: Jul 2008 Location: U.K Dorset Posts: 8,675	Don't worry sweetie, we only started ttc June, but knowing my DH those same words are round the corner. Just stick at it.

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NickyT75 Trying to conceive (TTC) BnB Elite Join Date: Jan 2008 Location: Cumbria Posts: 16,971	Aw don't be upset sweetie men just don't seem to understand that it's not quite as simple getting pregnant as they think. I know it's hard not talking about it but as someone said above... try not mentioning it to him as much so it doesn't turn into a big deal & get blown out of proportion. You can always come on here and talk to us whenever you wanna talk about things tho xx

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Jul 4th, 2008, 15:53 PM	#9
porkpie1981 Mum (Mom) BnB Addict Join Date: Apr 2008 Location: Belfast Posts: 9,107	me and my oh where arguging about this and the fact that i spend to much time on here

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saraendepity Mum (Mom) BnB Addict Join Date: Jun 2008 Location: Co Durham Posts: 6,500	i second nicky... and evry one else tbh !!!!!!! hope you are feeling better hunni xxxxxxxxxxxxxxx

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