about 5 minutes ago i expressed that i was worried about getting a negative result. The OH says that he feels like I am calculating this too much and being too controlling when it comes to BD on the days i'm calculating as more fertile

I thought that he wanted me to be pregnant and that we were close enough to talk about stuff like this....

He says he wants nature to take it's course and that he doesn't want to plan it...

Feeling very emotional right now

Oh hun I think sometimes they just feel like theres a bit too much opessure on them if we know that everything else is pretty much sussed... they get freaked out and panic... dont worry yourself, im sure he wants a baby just as much as you.

awww chick, dont be getting upset, that is exactly what mine said, they are all the bloody same, they dont understand !!!!! xxxx

dont read too much into it hun, he just feels like he is not wanted other than to make a baby. just try not to talk too much about it it may turn him off. good luck!

tbh i also think i am just being a bit more emotional today which is making me be a little bit more sensitive to these things.

Don't worry sweetie, we only started ttc June, but knowing my DH those same words are round the corner. Just stick at it.

Aw don't be upset sweetie men just don't seem to understand that it's not quite as simple getting pregnant as they think.

I know it's hard not talking about it but as someone said above... try not mentioning it to him as much so it doesn't turn into a big deal & get blown out of proportion.

You can always come on here and talk to us whenever you wanna talk about things tho xx

me and my oh where arguging about this and the fact that i spend to much time on here

i second nicky... and evry one else tbh !!!!!!!
hope you are feeling better hunni

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