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Jul 4th, 2008, 07:53 AM
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Originally Posted by Schmelly  Well...to put a different slant on this one............when I had my scan (to confirm my mc in Feb), the midwife herself at the EPAC actually told me that if I got preg again I should tell my gp a white lie and say I was spotting again so that I could get an early scan. She said to tell him I'm spotting and that I'm a nervous wreck in order to get the referral. Her words, not mine!!!
Good luck  | U see my doc sorta advised me to go to the hopsital and lie and gave me a wink. I think she knew i was generally concerned and not just doing it for look at the baby |
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Jul 4th, 2008, 07:58 AM
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Originally Posted by porkpie1981 U see my doc sorta advised me to go to the hopsital and lie and gave me a wink. I think she knew i was generally concerned and not just doing it for look at the baby | Well I think that's a green light, personally. I understand that other girls are concerned about overloading the EPAC but if the health professionals themselves are encouraging it then I think that's OK. The docs/midwives just prob aren't 'officially' allowed to say it so have to do it 'off the record'.  |
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Jul 4th, 2008, 08:02 AM
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I'm Currently Feeling: | You see i also think if my wee boy wasnt getting checked up over sumthing i was worried about i would go to any means possible to get him checked out |
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Jul 4th, 2008, 08:18 AM
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I'm Currently Feeling:  | I think you are doing the right thing. I know when I get my BFP I will be so scared and I wil try and get an early scan. |
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Jul 4th, 2008, 09:21 AM
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I'm Currently Feeling:  | I am having a early scan next time!!! Whatever it takes, I can't wait, I would even pay!
I think it's really hard esp with the type of loss we suffered, as the sack was empty (we had blighted ovums) you just wanna check that there is actually a baby there. I understand totally love! |
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Jul 4th, 2008, 10:19 AM
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I'm Currently Feeling:  | don't know what it's like in ireland but i had x2 chem pregnancies before this one over the course of a year so i told the docs this when i went to tell them i was preggo and asked if it was possible to have an early scan. She was more than sympathetic and arranged for an 8 weeks one even though she said that it was more than likely that the previous 2 were just one of those things. Ended up having one at 7.5 weeks which was a great reasurance (and i had had no bleeding). |
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Jul 4th, 2008, 11:07 AM
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Originally Posted by maccy I am having a early scan next time!!! Whatever it takes, I can't wait, I would even pay!
I think it's really hard esp with the type of loss we suffered, as the sack was empty (we had blighted ovums) you just wanna check that there is actually a baby there. I understand totally love! |
I know macy, you are the only other person on here that i know have had this happen |
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