As some of you know oxsarahxo sadly lost her baby girl Jessica Charlotte Reay hours after giving birth. We are arranging a star to be named after Jessica and a lantern for her resting place from all of us. We also thought it would be nice to make a contribution to Sarah & Matt so they can use it towards flower arrangements, head stone or resting place arrangements. If you would like to contibute please PM me for details. Wobbles (oxsarahxo cannot see this message - Please do not discuss this on the forum) | Welcome to BabyandBump's Trying To Conceive Forum - Trying to conceive your first or doing it again? Share & seek advice through your TTC journey with others. This thread is called 'Im made a decision' and is in our Trying To Conceive Forums section. |
Jul 2nd, 2008, 20:12 PM
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I'm Currently Feeling: | Aww well i hope u r pg.. And yes i use this site as a way to deal with my mcs but i only have 3 dogs.. No kids and i get on mostly when hes at work cuz my man is an attention brat.. He was an spoiled only child lol and when i do get on when he is home i make sure to involve him but i do try to watch it when hes here!! | | | | Status: Offline
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Jul 2nd, 2008, 20:14 PM
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I'm Currently Feeling: | Glad everythings ok hun, I agree it can be addictive and I was like that when I first went through my m/c, I have eased off now too as i think it does get all too much, I'm always here if you wanna chat or vent hun, take care. xxx |
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Jul 2nd, 2008, 20:16 PM
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Originally Posted by maccy Glad everythings ok hun, I agree it can be addictive and I was like that when I first went through my m/c, I have eased off now too as i think it does get all too much, I'm always here if you wanna chat or vent hun, take care. xxx |  |
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Jul 2nd, 2008, 22:15 PM
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| I reiterate what the other ladies have said too. Also, I think I obsess here and have been trying to wean myself away from the boards too as it gets a bit too much. My husband has no idea I am still here and would be mad if he knew, so I think your partner is right in what he is saying to you.
You mentioned that you thought your obsession here was your way of coping with your loss. Well it mirrors my reasons in a different way as I think I obsess on here because in my heart I don't believe I will conceive due to my age (I'm 46). With each month that passes, I sometimes find myself calculating how old I will be when my potential baby is born ... it's not healthy. I think letting things happen in their own time with a bit of knowledge as to when the 'right time' to BD is, is the healthiest and sanest way to TTC.
Wishing you luck and peace of mind.  |
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I'm Currently Feeling: | aw porkpie hunny, glad youve sorted it!!!
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Jul 2nd, 2008, 23:10 PM
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I've weaned myself away from here since our baby was born sleeping. I still like to post a bit though (mainly because I just can't go cold turkey  )
I really hope you get your bfp soon hun  |
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Jul 3rd, 2008, 00:21 AM
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I'm Currently Feeling: | Well didnt test tonite as couldnt be annoyed, well i lie i could but dont want to set the oh off again  . Im testing in the morning and even if i get a  i know i am pregnant. Im sitting here and my boobs have a feeling that cannot be imaginary and isnt just  arriving as i never have that problem.
My oh even agreeded that my nipples are so stuck out and the bot around it has really spread out like saucers and went brown
I wish my  would hurry up and show  |
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Jul 3rd, 2008, 07:25 AM
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I'm Currently Feeling: | I'm glad the argument cleared the air for you and your OH and, that you made up after. I only come on here once a day first thing before going to work as, my OH doesn't like me comming on here too much as he says it upsets me reading some of your stories. So, I just go on it when he isn't here  Fingers crossed you get a  and that  stays away |
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Jul 3rd, 2008, 07:51 AM
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I'm Currently Feeling: |  just a faint line if i hold it up but still no colour |
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