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Jun 27th, 2008, 15:37 PM
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I'm Currently Feeling: | I am a horrible person..... |
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Jun 27th, 2008, 15:43 PM
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I'm Currently Feeling: | Oh hun...I know how hard it is to deal with this. Everyone around me seems to be getting pregnant with the greatest of ease and we have been trying for quite some time now. It doesn't make you a bad person to feel this way. TTC is frustrating. We temp, take meds, bd every freaking day etc., etc., and nothing. Hopefully soon you will get your  too. Good luck and try to keep your chin up!  |
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Jun 27th, 2008, 16:16 PM
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I'm Currently Feeling: | Jacky how can you even write that title! You are one of the loveliest, warmest, funniest most gorgeous ladies on here! Nobody deserves what you have gone through, but this isn't about deserving. If it was, everybody on here would be getting their  s straight away! It always seems like all the girls who are not trying very hard fall pg just looking at a willy, and it's not fair, but its not a punishment on you! Your time will come Jacky!!!  It is so hard and horrible and ugly ttc for a long time. I ttc 10 months the first time round and I'm now facing my 15th month for no.2 and it makes me feel like crying just typing that number. But, WE WILL GET THERE! Hang on in there!  |
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Jun 27th, 2008, 16:20 PM
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I'm Currently Feeling: | Im feeling like this also so
I beat when people tell u others are pregnant they wait to see ur expression. i realy hate that part the most |
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Jun 27th, 2008, 16:20 PM
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I'm Currently Feeling: |  You are not a horrible person at all |
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Jun 27th, 2008, 16:25 PM
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I'm Currently Feeling: | Oh my gosh!!??
Please don't think you are a horrid person. I would feel exactly the same!!! Although I MC at 7 weeks no way as awful as what you have been through I found out one of my best friends was preggers and they didn't tell me because they thought it would upset me. They were right of course I was sooo jealous, hurt, upset etc etc. Its only natural that you should feel like this. So please don't think you are a bad person you aren't!!
You will get that  !! and I wish you all the luck in the world TTCing
Kerry xxx |
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Jun 27th, 2008, 17:05 PM
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#7 | | having a BAW baby! Chat Happy BnB Member
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I'm Currently Feeling: | you are not horrible.......and i often shout at myself when i hear of others like that.....
me....9 months to get pregnant, and then a mc....now at month 15......i get so sad about it all too....
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Jun 27th, 2008, 17:11 PM
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I'm Currently Feeling: | your not horrible, hoping you get your  soon xx I know the feeling tho, lifes not fair xx |
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Jun 27th, 2008, 17:18 PM
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I'm Currently Feeling: | dont be hard on yourself hun, you are not a horrible person!
its just the way the world works,and its just sods law that she fell after 2months and its taking you longer
chin up chicken
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Jun 27th, 2008, 18:33 PM
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