porkpie1981

Rang today an they had a free slot advailble in 20 mins do rushed down and explained abou the blooding around ovulation time and the bloatiness etc. She confirmed that bleeding any others time she would look in to but around ovulation is fine She also confirmed that after having a mc this can just appear even if it never happened b4 cause of the everything thats been happening over the last few months. She explained that the bloatiness is just my womb getting back to normal after being stretched. She did a wuick urine test to rul out infection and all is well and shes also sending it off to get it checked for other infections. I should be happy but all i can do is cry and have arguged with my oh. Im bloody juts pissed off with all this and wish that my body would get back to normal as even while im typing this i have that dull back ache

I have to go out but i will explain the argument later(surprise surprise its about babies)

trishk

dont worry sweetie it will! I know its a horrible time but you will go back to normal and I am sure you will get your sticky bean soon! Loads of hugs to you! and at least you know that everything looks ok and there is nothing wrong.

tansey

Kerryanne

i know how you feel

magicvw

Your bod will get back to normal soon Porkpie! And don't forget that bleeding at ov time is a really good sign of fertility! That's something good anyway! Hope you guys patch things up - I know you will

porkpie1981

When i got home from doc my oh decided to talk about the fact that i shouldnt be raging that others are pregnant! I was raging and said that i am happy for others and just that it reminds me that im not pregnant. Men dont understand at all. I knew this was going to happen as i sai dot the other dayt on here. I just want people to be normal around me! I dont mind others being pregnant and even stated that just cause im not doesnt mean the whole needs to stop getting pregnant. People keep asking how i am as if i m going to fall to pieces or steal others babies etc It been months now and i think it unfair for people to do this. Its not even like they are concerned its just like they expect u to be upset or jealous and they want front row seats

Dee_H

I hope you get everything figured out soon hun.

buffycat

oh hun.....i am so sorry that people are being so insensitive towards you.......only a handful of people knew that i was pregnant so when i miscarried, so there weren't many to tell. Even then, some people were unable to talk to me or treat me as normal.....

Others being pregnant is ok (though we are allowed to get envious!), but we would never wish pain or sadness upon them.......i love my best friend dearly, she is 6 months pregnant and doesn't know about my mc....and i'm not planning on telling her anytime too soon either....i don't want her to worry about me seeing her and getting excited about her baby....

anyway in my view, unless you have been through a mc, you can't understand as it wasn't your loss, and you really cannot imagine how it feels, let alone empathise........

You have to grieve for everything that you have lost, and then move on. And once you move on, then everyone else should be able to move on as well......

i understand, as do many here...and we are here for you...hugs and all....and if you want, you can phone/visit me for that hug too...

take care....
luv & hugs

HAYS

aw hun sorry your feeling poo!
men dont understand atall, altho they can be supportive they dont understand the mental strain on us. Our bodies are the ones being messed about.

Hold in there chicken
xx

sjkirkham

men are sooo silly, I just had a row with my dh down the phone and I really didnt want to as hes going away tonight for 2 weeks and Im in work and not going to see him again until the 10 july , hope your feeling better soon xx