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Old Jun 26th, 2008, 17:12 PM   #1
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I need a break.

It's been two and a half years of nothing now.

I want to go on the Pill for a cycle or two for a mental break, absolutely no chance of pregnancy so nothing to obsess over. Hubby says no it's a step backwards and doesn't seem to understand my need for the chance of pregnancy to be removed completely for a while.

I'm not temping this month. I didn't know what day I was on till I logged in.

I feel meh.

I have been binge eating for two weeks and put on 7lbs.

I am tired all the time, even right now I am fighting to not go to bed.


No point to this post really - I wonder if I am depressed?
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Old Jun 26th, 2008, 17:27 PM   #2
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It sounds like you might be depressed (understandably so) is there anyone around you that you could go talk to?
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Old Jun 26th, 2008, 17:53 PM   #3
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yeh hun maybe, good tho that you want to take a break, its got to be better than carrying on making yourself ill
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Old Jun 26th, 2008, 17:58 PM   #4
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It sounds like you might be depressed (understandably so) is there anyone around you that you could go talk to?
yeah you lot lol

seriously though, no I don't have close friends, just lots of casual friends, no-one I would talk like this to. Apart from hubby but as I say he is being uncharacteristically "deaf"
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Old Jun 26th, 2008, 17:58 PM   #5
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Hun, you really sound fed up. You need to talk to someone - what has your doc said about you trying for so long? You need to go see what doc thinks about you going back on the pill or just to see if you are depressed.
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Old Jun 26th, 2008, 18:01 PM   #6
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I agree with tansey, if there's no one close around for you to speak with you may want to go into the doctor and talk to them. It's not good to keep all of this bottled up
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Old Jun 26th, 2008, 18:04 PM   #7
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Go to the doc and have a chat. Maybe if doc agrees it's good to have a ttc break then oh might be more understanding? Doctor's orders........

So sorry you're feeing so low. Thinking of you
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Old Jun 26th, 2008, 19:23 PM   #8
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Im moaning and its only been a few months since my mc so i can only imagine how u feel. Ive heard of people taking breaks and getting a or soon after
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Old Jun 26th, 2008, 19:33 PM   #9
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sweetie you need to talk to someone for sure...
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Old Jun 26th, 2008, 20:04 PM   #10
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Oh honey you do sound down, understandably so. 2 and a bit years is a long time and its not surprising it's getting to you why not have a chat to your Dr and see if he can offer any suggestions (you never know!!)
Biggest hugs, we are all thinking of you - i hate to suggest it but maybe have a break fro the forum's etc, try to really put TTC out of your mind?
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