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Jun 23rd, 2008, 09:31 AM
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I'm Currently Feeling:  | Feeling like giving up
**Sorry need to moan ***
Well this is my 14th month TTC and yet again my body is not playing ball. I'm taking progesterone pills which are supposed to stop me spotting before AF and give me a longer luteal phase - give that eggy some time to actually implant.
Well they are just not working.  Last three cycles I've still started getting bloody CM around 6DPO and this month is just the bloody same. I'm so fed up with the whole thing. I'm fed up of going back to my doctor and saying yet again that I've had bleeding. I'm fed up of taking pills. I'm just so FED UP. 
It seems like a miracle to me that we actually managed to conceive our LO. I think I am being selfish wanting another one when there are so many of you lovely girls who are trying for no.1 so patiently. We were TTC 10 months for LO and only got pg when we had stopped focussing on TTC, so I feel like jacking all this in and just being happy with what I've got and if another one comes along then great, and if it doesn't then that's ok.
I'm gonna start a new acronym NTC. Not Trying to Conceive. Just having  and living a normal life. But I still feel like  |
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Jun 23rd, 2008, 09:36 AM
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#2 | | TTC for over 3 years BabyandBump Team
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I'm Currently Feeling:  | Oh sweetie 
You hand in there - Don't give up yet. |
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Jun 23rd, 2008, 09:47 AM
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#3 | | mam of 2 and pregnant Active BnB Member
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I'm Currently Feeling:  | I know how you feel! Just don't give up yet! it will happen |
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Jun 23rd, 2008, 09:48 AM
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I'm Currently Feeling:  | Oh honey  I started spotting 6DPO this month and it is so depressing, poor you having that almost every month
Have you tried Vit B6/12? It's meant to lengthen the luteal phase and works for some people really well? |
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Jun 23rd, 2008, 10:26 AM
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It will happen i know alot of people ttc #2, that have waited up too 2-4 years till they fallen pregnant.
As the others said hang in there, it will happen.
There's no need to say sorry about moaning, it must be very frustrating for you
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Jun 23rd, 2008, 13:43 PM
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my friend.. I feel the same.. I will also start NTC next cycle and see what happens.. this is sooooo frustrating but when the universe is ready and we are ready (even tho we think we are) I believe it will happen... eventually...I am always here to chat |
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Jun 23rd, 2008, 16:43 PM
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I'm Currently Feeling: | ur not selfish. Im ttc no 2 and its harder than no 1 in my case as u know all the things that can go wrong
I bet u get ur  soon |
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Jun 23rd, 2008, 16:45 PM
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I'm Currently Feeling:  | i am sorry sweetheart...i know it's hard but don't give
we are here for you |
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Jun 23rd, 2008, 18:19 PM
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I know how you feel. Don't give up unless you truely feel you want to. IF you need to take some "time off" I would... give you some time to regain your sanity and enjoy things for a while... TTC takes over EVERYTHING! |
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Jun 23rd, 2008, 18:46 PM
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I'm Currently Feeling: | Sorry you're feeling down. Maybe NTC would be a good idea for you emotionally more than anything. Just do what your heart tells you...there's no right or wrong in this situation.
I sympathise with the spotting as it's something I get too.
Good luck |
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