andi01

This is just sort of random; but I needed to get it out;

Today; when I went on facebook a girl I had worked with had asked me to Join a group; for her sister who was 2 months old; and found dead in her crib this morning from Crib Death.
I was and still am heart broken. Even tho Im not close with this person or her family; it still saddens me. I cant even begin to understand how anyone can deal with something like this.
Me & the OH are taking a break on TTC but It just sticks in my mind that something horrible could happen at any minute and there would be nothing that you could do different or take it back.

RIP Little One

CurlySue

It really is saddening when we read about things like this. I was watching Euro 2008 the other day and it turns out one of the Dutch players left the camp on Wednesday to be with his wife who was suffering pregnancy complications. The baby girl was born prematurely and died a few hours later. The whole team were wearing black armbands in memory of her.

I don't know if its because I'm overly emotional about TTC or just hormonal but I cried my eyes out when I read about it.

porkpie1981

magicvw

That's so sad

NeyNey

That is very sad. I think we all have those concerns

I mean we are going through hell on this TTC journey.
And sometimes I get frightened that if we do succeed we will lose
our little one too soon.

The worry never ends.

mizzi

my sister died that way and my mum said when she had me she used to hold a mirror by my nose to see if i was breathing

so sad

hayz1981

That is so so sad. Life is just so precious and fragile.

NeyNey, you're right, the worry never ends.

Kerryanne

That so sad

My sister died of cot death or SID as some people call it plus on my granny's side it happened 3 members of her family. I was so worryed incase it happened to the my sons, that i got apnoea monitor for both of them, i always try and give money to the scottish Cot death trust, as they were the ones who gave me , they cost £600 each, and there is a waiting list, sometimes. We all had one's as baby's and am not use to baby's without it.

HAYS

aw hun thats so sad
xxx

porkpie1981

I always wanted to get sumthing like that just to be on the safe side with my next . Ive seen stuff on ebay and the internet that was cheaper, do u think they would work ok? The alam goes of if the baby isnt breathing when lying on a blanket i think