miel

well i just asking my husband after ttc for 8 month (probably going on the 9th now)
do you think we have a problem or we are just out of luck?

do you ask yourself too?

Suz

I do... But then i try to remember that the drs said it could take any were from 6 months to a year to fall preg.

Have you talked to your Dr?

Omi

well, taking into consideration you only have about a 25% chance of getting pg every month...i wonder how people getting pg at all, seeing as we ACTUALLY work at it, and still struggle...

But that's just me, lol!!

miel

i decided to wait on tests Suz...i did want to stress about it in vacation and since i was not at the 12 month mark yet...
i took a new appoitment for august 29th if not pg by then i will investigate for sure ...

loopylew

don't give up yet hun, your temps are looking good still xx

posh

I sometimes wonder about that too - we have been TTC since October last year (thats when I came off the pill), and so far haven't had a sniff of a .

Snowdrop

Yes, frequently. We're a couple of months behind you, ttc for 6 months, now in the 7th. I went to the doctor for blood tests which came back fine. She just said stop thinking about it until December - that's soooo much easier said than done!

I worry that we've left it too late (I'm 37 DH is 41). I know that's irrational and there's no reason we shouldn't be able to, but I still worry.

I think I'm finding it a little easier being on BnB and knowing I'm not alone or going mad!

shalagirl

I think if someone was to tell me there is nothing wrong with you or ur OH biologically, it is just a matter of luck or chance -25% of catching a BFP each month - I would feel more at ease. I have been ttc for 6 months and I just keep thinking I am six months older (I am 33) what if there are probs? If time was all it was I could perhaps wait more patiently (well maybe!!!)

miel

i am 33 as well...
thank you for your replies girls...well af is here this morning so cycle 9th for me!!!!

rachelle1975

Frequently Miel - only this morning after an old friend pointed out 'i'd better crack on or be fossilised rather than fertilised' i rang DH in tears telling him maybe we should have tests to see if there is a problem.....

Sucks huh?

It doesn't help when people say 'the average time is 12 months' - i don't want averages! i want to be perfect and pop one out now!!

It's our turn this month Miel i'm sure... well i'm going to have so much sex it has to be!!!