rachelle1975

god i just read my last line - i meant 'our time' this month as in you and me Miel but when i mentioned the sex bit i meant by hubby..... i don't think you and i would have a high success rate getting pregnant with each other

Porun

On a Danish hp about pregnantcy it says:

If a couple has sex regularly and don't use protection 8 of 10 will be pregnant within one year.

- Ca. 20-25 % will become pregnant in the 1 month.
- Ca. 50 % will become pregnant within 3 months.
- Ca. 60 % will become pregnant within 6 months.
- Ca. 75 % will become pregnant within 9 months.
- Ca. 80 % will become pregnant within 1 year.
- Ca. 85-90 % will become pregnant within 2 years.

"Only" 10-15 % of all couples are after 2 years with unprotectet and regular sex not pregnant. Most of them will then get pregnant with help from a doctor.

I wish you the best of luck getting pregnant.

maz

Hi miel

DH and I have been trying on and off since we got married in Oct 2004 and so far nothing. A couple of months were I thought maybe but turned out to be AF playing mind games. We've had the tests done and we have 'unexplained infertility' which I guess means the experts don't know why it hasn't happened. We could have more and more tests done but my consultant feels it would be pointless. So we are now waiting for IVF - hopefully by the end of the year.

I think you should give it another couple of cycles and then get the ball rolling if needs be. I don't see any reason why your doctor couldn't do a day 21 blood test and your DH's doctor do a SA - at least if there is something obvious it will be flagged up pretty quickly.

Good luck hun

xx

Schmelly

I think this all the time. Just started cycle no.11 today and am aware that I'm approaching the 1-year marker.

I have massive respect for anyone who has been trying longer than this, because I'm already going loopy.

Good luck.

x0xbaybeeemz

Me and my OH was having a midnight walk once because i needed to get out the house because i was feeling abit upset and while we were walking my OH said i think one of us has a problem because your not getting pregnant, That upset me And it made me think, im on my 7th month, So maybe one of us do and its most likely me I just wanted to give up now and there and go back on pill But i havent given up! Ill give it a few more months

TrixieLox

I feel this way too. Each month, when I get that fugly , the biggest emotion I feel is fear - fear that I might be infertile. So it's less a short-term 'damn, I'm not pregnant this month' but more about the long-term - 'will I ever be pregnant?'

Have had blood tests and hubby has had sp tests, which are all fine - but what if there's something more serious, that cant be picked up by these tests?

That's how I feel. But at the same time, I rationalise with myself and you should too Miel - we're in our 30s and, on average, it can take us a year so we should try try try to relax ... xx

miel

i do dislike the average too i since i am not belonging to the average of woman who get pregnant right away or within 3 month!!!

some month i think i have a problem some month i think it's just "IT" no luck again...
i took a appoitment with my OBGYN for august 29th ...if not pregnant by then i can go over there "10 month" ttc under my belt and a collection of temp chart to go with it!!!

Anyway fore some reason i am not as sad this month as i was last month may be because if everything is normal with me i am getting closer to the average of "80 % of couple will fall PG within the year" after all !!!