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Old Jun 15th, 2008, 23:04 PM   #1
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Well I am out of the running this month as my has turned up, I am so gutted I really thought last week I was getting pregnancy signs and was hoping for a .

What I think has made me feel even worst is in the last 4 days 3 of my friends have told me they are now pregnant by accident! How can 3 people get pregnant without trying and I would do anything for a baby and just cant get pregnant.
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Old Jun 15th, 2008, 23:10 PM   #2
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Sorry got you. Try to think of it as being one step closer to getting your

It is horrible when people you know start announcing they are pregnant, and even worse when they weren't even trying. Try to stay positive, and come on here to vent or chat.

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Old Jun 15th, 2008, 23:17 PM   #3
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Thank you, I have been watching posts for a long time on here, but just decided to write myself. Since finding out the most recent friends pregnancy today I have just cried non stop on my hubby, then i feel really horrible cause it sounds like i dont want my mates to have there baby. I really wish them a very healthy pregnancy but just wish it was me who really wanted it.

Hopefully this month I will get my bfp as my mind will be everywhere else as I am moving to germany.
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Old Jun 16th, 2008, 00:31 AM   #4
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awe i am sorry to hear that got you! well just think about u get to try next month and maybe u will get a Hope u get it soon

Lots of baby dust for u
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Old Jun 16th, 2008, 00:36 AM   #5
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I'm so sorry the got you
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Old Jun 16th, 2008, 07:39 AM   #6
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Sorry af turned up!
Don't feel bad for crying over your friends announcement - we all feel like this as some point!
Good luck next cycle - as lots of us believe, each cycle is a cycle closer to that BFP!
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Old Jun 16th, 2008, 10:14 AM   #7
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aw hun im sorry, the witch is a bitch at the mo
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Old Jun 16th, 2008, 17:16 PM   #8
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I am sorry it wasn't your month this time round it's always hard when friends/family fall PG and doubly triply so when they are unplanned! As a longtermer, I have friends who fell pg, had one and are on verge of having second now!!

Best of luck for this cycle, keep posting! Go and get yourself some cycle buddies on the other board for a bit of extra support xx
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Old Jun 16th, 2008, 17:56 PM   #9
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O honey, we've all been there. How long have u been TTCing? Isn't it crazy, the number of people who seem to fall pregnant at the mere mention of the word 'sperm' once you start TTCing and yet us gals - nothing, nada. Not fair. x
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Old Jun 16th, 2008, 18:01 PM   #10
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Sorry AF got you. I sympathise completely with you about what you said about your friends. In the time I've been TTC so many of mine have either got PG accidentally or first month of trying, and then complained that they we're really ready for it yet. Drives me mad!!! And they all kept theirs while I MC mine once I actually got there. It does all seem unfair, and feels awful to feel like that about our friends, but it is so hard.
Thinking of you and sending and hopes for next month.
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