OMG .. didnt think someone could be this mean ?!?!

saraendepity · Jun 15th, 2008, 16:24 PM

ok so i'm ttc at the mo but no one knows n i was sitting at work the other day day dreaming about a baby whilst having lunch n everyone got onto the subject of babies so naturally my ears pricked!
we started talkin about a friend of mine who's due for c section on tues, who's son (my god son) has autism (v mild)
one of my colleagues said why do people like this keep on breeding, they should not be allowed, what happens if another brat like that pops out ?? they should all be put down at birth!?!?! :O

i couldn't believe she came out with it i was completely GOBSMACKED!!

i didn't think there were people like that? am i just very naive ?? i know babies arent everyones cup of tea but come on... thats a bit extreme !?!?

any thoughts??

Loula · Jun 15th, 2008, 16:27 PM

not just babies, but special needs babies. omg the cheek! Did they not know you are this child's godmother??

never mind you being gobsmacked, I'have gob smacked them!!!
I am fuming on your behalf!

Farie · Jun 15th, 2008, 16:28 PM

Some people defy belief

saraendepity · Jun 15th, 2008, 16:30 PM

yer she did know i was his god mother!! i couldnt believe it, you know when you'r just so shocked i couldnt say anything n i'm normally one to go off on one at people like that !!!

ps sorry if posted this in wrong area feel free to shout!!

xx

dizzy65 · Jun 15th, 2008, 16:30 PM

OMFG that is so mean!! i mean so what if the child his a mental problem or what ever, its not like they are getting less love than any other child in this world!! I can't believe people would be so ignorant to say something that dumb! omg! and not each child is going to be the exact same, i know a family that has 8 kids and only one of them is autistic and he still leads a normal life... WOW i never thought people could be that rude!

cupcake · Jun 15th, 2008, 16:31 PM

what a piece of work, some people are incredibly cruel not to mention stupid

Risa · Jun 15th, 2008, 16:31 PM

oh my gosh how can anyone say these awful words about any child ?!?!?!
I find it disgraceful people like this make me so mad !!
Everybody has feelings including autism children .

So sorry u had to hear that hun..........

trishk · Jun 15th, 2008, 16:34 PM

I know exactly what you mean! Some people are so so cruel they think that special needs people are not real people! I just find it incredible I know its not the same but anyone of us could be involved in an accident tomorrow and end up in a wheelchair does that mean that someone should kill us off?

anita665 · Jun 15th, 2008, 16:36 PM

People who can make comments like that are just showing how stupid and ignorant they are!

saraendepity · Jun 15th, 2008, 16:37 PM

thanks evry 1 !!

i never would have believed someone could be so mean about a child with problems like my g,son he is the sweetest little boy EVER n he gets so much love from his whole family, and for her to be so narrow minded that her next babe would end up with the same probs sickens me! i understand and respect other peoples opinions but this ........

xx

Jun 15th, 2008, 16:24 PM	#1
saraendepity Mum (Mom) BnB Addict Join Date: Jun 2008 Location: Co Durham Posts: 6,500	OMG .. didnt think someone could be this mean ?!?! ok so i'm ttc at the mo but no one knows n i was sitting at work the other day day dreaming about a baby whilst having lunch n everyone got onto the subject of babies so naturally my ears pricked! we started talkin about a friend of mine who's due for c section on tues, who's son (my god son) has autism (v mild) one of my colleagues said why do people like this keep on breeding, they should not be allowed, what happens if another brat like that pops out ?? they should all be put down at birth!?!?! :O i couldn't believe she came out with it i was completely GOBSMACKED!! i didn't think there were people like that? am i just very naive ?? i know babies arent everyones cup of tea but come on... thats a bit extreme !?!? any thoughts??

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Jun 15th, 2008, 16:27 PM	#2
Loula Trying to conceive (TTC) Active BnB Member Join Date: May 2008 Location: Northern Scotland Posts: 819	not just babies, but special needs babies. omg the cheek! Did they not know you are this child's godmother?? never mind you being gobsmacked, I'have gob smacked them!!! I am fuming on your behalf!

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Farie Mum (Mom) BnB Addict Join Date: Mar 2008 Location: Land of the long white cloud Posts: 9,556	Some people defy belief

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Jun 15th, 2008, 16:30 PM	#4
saraendepity Mum (Mom) BnB Addict Join Date: Jun 2008 Location: Co Durham Posts: 6,500	yer she did know i was his god mother!! i couldnt believe it, you know when you'r just so shocked i couldnt say anything n i'm normally one to go off on one at people like that !!! ps sorry if posted this in wrong area feel free to shout!! xx

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Jun 15th, 2008, 16:30 PM	#5
dizzy65 Mum (Mom) BnB Addict Join Date: May 2008 Location: BC canada Posts: 8,010	OMFG that is so mean!! i mean so what if the child his a mental problem or what ever, its not like they are getting less love than any other child in this world!! I can't believe people would be so ignorant to say something that dumb! omg! and not each child is going to be the exact same, i know a family that has 8 kids and only one of them is autistic and he still leads a normal life... WOW i never thought people could be that rude!

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cupcake Mum (Mom) BnB Addict Join Date: Nov 2007 Location: middle east Posts: 4,375	what a piece of work, some people are incredibly cruel not to mention stupid

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Risa Pregnant (Expecting) Active BnB Member Join Date: Jun 2008 Location: leeds west yorkshire Posts: 20	oh my gosh how can anyone say these awful words about any child ?!?!?! I find it disgraceful people like this make me so mad !! Everybody has feelings including autism children . So sorry u had to hear that hun..........

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Jun 15th, 2008, 16:34 PM	#8
trishk Dad Inactive Join Date: Jun 2008 Location: Ireland Posts: 401	I know exactly what you mean! Some people are so so cruel they think that special needs people are not real people! I just find it incredible I know its not the same but anyone of us could be involved in an accident tomorrow and end up in a wheelchair does that mean that someone should kill us off?

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Jun 15th, 2008, 16:36 PM	#9
anita665 Mum (Mom) BnB Addict Join Date: Sep 2007 Location: Norfolk, UK Posts: 2,689	People who can make comments like that are just showing how stupid and ignorant they are!

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Jun 15th, 2008, 16:37 PM	#10
saraendepity Mum (Mom) BnB Addict Join Date: Jun 2008 Location: Co Durham Posts: 6,500	thanks evry 1 !! i never would have believed someone could be so mean about a child with problems like my g,son he is the sweetest little boy EVER n he gets so much love from his whole family, and for her to be so narrow minded that her next babe would end up with the same probs sickens me! i understand and respect other peoples opinions but this ........ xx

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