He is a step-dad to my children, but I would feel awful if he never got the chance to experience the joy of having a baby in the house. I see how he is with my minded children and jsut know he would be a fabby daddy.
We watch TV progs like House of Tiny Tearaways, and we have the same outlook and opinions on bringing up children, so we'll make a good team.
And also for me, I want to experience the joy of a planned pregnancy - a birth with someone who adores me present, not someone who beats me up and is totally unsupportive ( plus I was on my own for 2nd labour/birth

) and to parent with someone else instead of being a single parent, struggling.