wilbrabeany

ahhh hun am soo sorry...big hugs.xxx

Schmelly

So sorry hun. As Loula said though, if it's still just pink I wouldn't count yourself out just yet.

As far as the men in our lives are concerned...they just aren't biologically programmed to feel as we do. Although they want babies, they don't have the physical need andthey don't experience the same emotions.........they are not going through the tiring process of calculating cycles and analysing their bodies every second of the day and night. Some women are lucky enough to have men who are good with emotions and can empathise...but a lot of us aren't. I want to share the pain of ttc with my DH, but I know he wouldn't understand and we'd just end up arguing. I'd get angry with him for not understanding, then he'd start going on about me being 'grumpy'. He'd say that he wants a baby too...then the 'buts' would start. I've come to the conclusion that it's just not worth saying anything. So I keep it to myself and just share my thoughts on this forum.

I hope everything gets sorted for you very soon and that you get your BFP very soon

NeyNey

Honey I'm sorry - I hope it's something else, but if your AF is shortening I would see a Gyno to see what is happening.

lousielou

So sorry Hays xx

Sunshine

I'm so sorry. Don't give up x

HAYS

Ive been to see a gyno and told him it was 28 then 27 now 26 and he said thats fine? grr so annoying

hayz1981

oh no that's rubbish. So sorry hun. It seemed so promising this month for you.

I'm cycle day one now I think (I thought the evil broom rider had me yesterday but didnt get past spotting - but today I'm in agony so she'll show herself full force tonight). Anyway, let's both get our BFPs next month. Am I right in thinking we've been trying about the same time? When did you start?

Ok, so she may have come early, but hey, that's just one day sooner you can start trying again.

My OH is exactly the same by the way. I called down the stairs to him that I thought AF had started and he said, oh well, and carried on watching TV. It wasn't until he realised how upset I was that he expanded on his heartfelt 'oh well'.!!

xxx

nellis10

Hays...I posted this on my journal as I haven't ovulated yet...but here is how my cycles have varied since I started charting their lengths last sept (only been doing temps since ApriL!)

21
18
25
24
26
23
27
27
27
26
24

Now on CD15 and no OV....so I am up the swanny in a different way!!

rachelle1975

Babe that totally sucks - i'm really sorry.
thought it was my month this month too and it's not to be. what an ass.
I'm also 28 days spot on and mine is a bit odd this month.
how long you been TTC now?x

HAYS

been trying since oct 07 but been off the pill for 1 and half years prior to that,not using anything.

Thanks Nellis, so have the docs said anything about your cycles being so random?

i am not in full flow,its all weird so will prob have to change my ticker.
xx