Trying To Conceive

dawny690 · Jun 4th, 2008, 12:53 PM

ARGHHHHH finally when I thought af was defo on the way she goes and changes everything again!! My temp shot up to 36.7 this am no sign of af coming now just slight cramping now and then on right side of belly, so I went to the doctors who asked a stupid question when was the last time af came well der the last time I bled was with the mc! And then he had the cheek to ask if I was sure I was pregnant and I said yes as I had 2 positive tests at the time anyway he asked if I had tested on a hpt and I said yes but it was negative and that was a few days ago so he asked something sensible lol he said did I want a blood test to rule it out so I said yes please, so anyway I have a blood test on monday and im terrified lol im most scared of being pregnant again in case I lose it again, not sure I could go through that again so soon, I know new egg, new sperm etc but doesnt help much lol. Do you girls think there is a chance I could be and just not showing up on hpt's? As my df said he knows a few women (including his ex) that havent had positives for a while on hpt's, even recently we know someone that was pregnant but wasnt showing on hpt's til she was 2/3 months gone!! I would go mad if I had to wait that long! xx

tansey · Jun 4th, 2008, 13:01 PM

Sorry for your loss!
Sometimes if you are pg it doesn't always show up for a while but also there are other reasons why AF hasn't shown.
I hope you get the answer you want soon!

dawny690 · Jun 4th, 2008, 13:05 PM

Thanks hun, I dont know if I am or not myself feel more pregnant than I did when I was pg before the mc, which is now over 2 months ago! But dont know if its my mind playing tricks and af joining in lol xx

Loula · Jun 4th, 2008, 14:32 PM

Hmmm af's can get a little wacky after a mc (

hope you are ok?) you had a negative, so it's deffo not going to be left over hormones, so at least you know that should you get a

it'll be a different pregnancy

I'm sorry you feel scared, understandable though....

dawny690 · Jun 4th, 2008, 14:36 PM

Im fine just nervous I suppose of it happening again. But I would rather know one way or other if I am pg again, the doctor hasnt said as much but assume if blood is bfn then he will give me something to bring on the

? I hope so I know it can take a while for

to show again after a mc but normally its like 6-8 weeks im over that now xx