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May 29th, 2008, 23:22 PM
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I'm Currently Feeling:  | DH says NO to pre-seed
Right any one any ideas on how I can get my DH to agree to use using pre-seed? I got a box for this month and around ovulation time asked if we could try it out but he wasn't for using it! I told him what it was all about - natural, helps spermies etc and he still refused. He says he doesn't like the sound of it and is scared of getting irritated or a rash or something. Any ideas on how I could change his mind? | | | | Status: Offline
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May 29th, 2008, 23:23 PM
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| Does it really help? I thought that it just didn't kill spermies like other lubes... |
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May 29th, 2008, 23:25 PM
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May 29th, 2008, 23:25 PM
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I'm Currently Feeling:  | Tell him it will give him lots of extra pleasure.. no idea if that's true but worth a try!! Or just whip it out in the middle of a session and start applying before he has a chance to protest, or is any state of mind to protest! |
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May 29th, 2008, 23:27 PM
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I'm Currently Feeling:  | My oh knew all about it and that i had it etc... but i popped it i without saying anythign and he didnt even know. He said it just felt the same as always.... its nothing dodgy hun, i'd use it and see if he liked it after.  |
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May 29th, 2008, 23:27 PM
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I'm Currently Feeling: | From what the other ladies who have used it have said I think he would notice if I used it without telling him! | | | | Status: Offline
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May 29th, 2008, 23:30 PM
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I'm Currently Feeling: | Quote:
Originally Posted by shalagirl  From what the other ladies who have used it have said I think he would notice if I used it without telling him! | My hubby said he couldnt tell any difference. Itll only make a slippy mess if you put it all over the erm 'outside'  or use far too much.
If you follow the instructions properly it all goes inside and absorbs into your fleshy bits.  |
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May 29th, 2008, 23:33 PM
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I'm Currently Feeling:  | you should just not tell him  or tell him you will do what ever he wants if he does this for u | | | | Status: Online
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May 30th, 2008, 00:04 AM
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I'm Currently Feeling:  | My hubby didn't have a problem with using it, but last month I used it once without telling him only cos i didn't want to spoil the mood (i applied it in the loo much like putting in a tampon!) and he didn't notice. After he thought he had created a lot of *mess* which may have been the case or may have been the pre-seed. I didn't say anything. |
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May 30th, 2008, 00:08 AM
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I'm Currently Feeling: | I heard of worse things to use - what a shame he's not up for it. I've used it and it is very natural and just feels wet!
Good luck! |
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