polo_princess

Its hard for people to be sympathetic when its about something they havent been through or understand

Nic-Flowers

I was in second trimester (20 weeks approximately) And I went to get a scan and there was no heartbeat...but since I was so far along I was sent to Labor and Delivery and "delivered" my son, I got to hold him and see him, but It was really hard to decide when to let the nurses take him away, knowing we could never see him again.

It has been 7 months since we lost him and people have started to really push my buttons. I would be a mess without all of you. I can speak freely here with no one judging me and telling me harsh things that would hurt me.

Hopeful3

When its something you want so much then why wouldn't you try everything

you know to get it. I think people have good intentions when saying things

like relax and don't become obsessed etc, because they don't know what else

to say or have a solution. Hang in there, not everyone is understanding

outside of the world of babyandbump

diva4180

oh sweetie , he was an insensitive jerk for saying that, I'm sorry you had to hear that.

When you want something as bad as this, I agree with the above posts, why the hell wouldn't you try everything and anything? It's easy to say stuff like that when you haven't been through what you have. You (and Jacky and everyone else who hav been through it) are strong women, and I admire that strength. You all are inspirations to me that's for sure.

Stay strong and positive hun

Faerie

Big hug to you all. There are so many things that people become obsessed over and no one comments, I'm often left wondering why people think they have the right to comment on such a difficult journey when they have no clue.... I guess I was aware from a relatively young age what a difficult time TTC can be as my sister had a stillborn, but I still hate to think that I might have once made an insenstive comment because you can't understand til you've been there.

porkpie1981