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May 15th, 2008, 20:43 PM
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Got a text from my ex's sister today to say that my ex and his new gf who he's been with for 2 &a half months are having a baby! 
Yeah i probably should be happy...but seeing as he used to hit me, i cant rele find it in me to be happy for them...i was with him for 3 years, and didnt see the horrible wife beating side of him till a year in...i'm just worried that she or even worse, the baby will be on the end of his temper!
it also kills me because me and my amazing other half have lost 2 babies now, and so badly want one, &he doesnt deserve children, but gets one just like that!!!
i'm sure his gf is a lovely girl, but she really should know what he's like...
i've never spoken to anyone about what happened with me and him (apart from my OH &his sister as i was/am good friends with her)..and it still gets me to think about what i let him do to me,and for so long! He hit me, put me down and cheated on me all the time...And now he's having a baby...to be honest, i hope she finds out what he's like and gets out before its too late! yes she's then be a single mum, but that baby is so much better off with no dad than him...
sorry for rant
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May 15th, 2008, 20:45 PM
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I'm Currently Feeling:  | Gosh hun, this life, i really don't know why it throws this crap at us .. i really don't.
I'm so so sorry you have had to hear this, i can't offer you much advice, but i do offer a  , you never know, your little bean could be just around the corner ..
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May 15th, 2008, 20:47 PM
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May 15th, 2008, 20:52 PM
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I'm Currently Feeling:  | Hun I am in the exact same situation as you my ex use to hit me and cheat on me all the time and he is now having a baby with his ex girlfriend before me and she is due on my birthday! Makes you wonder why people like that have all the luck, just remember in the law of karma, what goes around comes around!
I hope for his girlfriends sake that the baby they are having is happy and healthy!
Please try not to let it get you down, easier said than done i know but look what and who you have now, someone you deserve and who deserves you and your time will come!
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May 15th, 2008, 21:08 PM
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May 15th, 2008, 21:13 PM
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I'm Currently Feeling:  | Im sorry Hun , Iknow how you feel , last time I was pregnant my step daughter found out she was pregnant again with her 2nd baby 2 days after I found out I was expecting , her son just turned a year old , and they cant even afford him , neither her or her boyfriend have jobs and I have bought most of her sons clothes for him and I gave her all my baby stuff , It just makes you so mad , I lost my baby a week after I found out and she is still pregnant , I cant even handle being around her right now , I know its not her fault but it hurts  | | | | Status: Offline
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May 15th, 2008, 21:19 PM
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May 15th, 2008, 21:29 PM
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Originally Posted by Suzanne  Hun I am in the exact same situation as you my ex use to hit me and cheat on me all the time and he is now having a baby with his ex girlfriend before me and she is due on my birthday! Makes you wonder why people like that have all the luck, just remember in the law of karma, what goes around comes around!
I hope for his girlfriends sake that the baby they are having is happy and healthy!
Please try not to let it get you down, easier said than done i know but look what and who you have now, someone you deserve and who deserves you and your time will come!
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May 15th, 2008, 21:30 PM
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Originally Posted by starryeye31 Im sorry Hun , Iknow how you feel , last time I was pregnant my step daughter found out she was pregnant again with her 2nd baby 2 days after I found out I was expecting , her son just turned a year old , and they cant even afford him , neither her or her boyfriend have jobs and I have bought most of her sons clothes for him and I gave her all my baby stuff , It just makes you so mad , I lost my baby a week after I found out and she is still pregnant , I cant even handle being around her right now , I know its not her fault but it hurts | hun im so sorry! i knmow how you feel...i cant bare to be around anyone thats pregnant for too long...here if u need to talk...
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May 15th, 2008, 21:30 PM
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