Mair

Hi babymaybe,

I know how you feel. I haven't told anyone that I'm ttc, partly because I didn't want to jinx it, partly because I didn't want to get my mums hopes up (she hasn't got any grandchildren and it looks like I'm the only chance she'll have of having any!), but mainly I didn't want people to keep asking me "if I had any news/luck yet". It's a bit easier for me as now I'm 38 I think most people assume that I don't want children anyway and my baby days are over! It's good to come on here and read about other peoples situations. I'm not at the stage yet where I get really upset when AF arrives, although I'm pretty disappointed when it happens. I think DH takes it worse than me and I feel bad having to break the news to him that it's another month without babies! I really look forward to my monthly dose of guilt/disappointment! Anyway, I wish you every luck and fingers crossed that this month is THE month (for all of us!) x

Darkchild

Hi really feel old I'm 35 and my DH is 40 we have been trying for 3 months. I need the support from you ladies. I heard some hopeful news today a coworker is 43 with one tube and is expecting her 2nd child, so ladies anything and everything is possible.

Darkchild

I am at 11 dpo I hope to get a bfp. I tested on 10dpo and it was a bfn so hoping AF dont show her wicked face on 08/13/2008 then I will re-test on the 14th. BABY DUST TO ME.

babymad

Hi ladies, I've been checking out the site for a while and thought I'd also join now. Think I need somewhere to talk openly and honestly because sometimes you can't talk to your OH and you all seem like understanding people.

A bit about myself now. Got married in March and have been TTC #1 since then. I'm currently on cycle 6 and I believe I'm 3dpo. I'm 31 next month and DH is 33.

I really hope I get my very soon because as you can all understand the longer it takes the more you worry!

I look forward to sharing this journey with you all and hope we ALL get ASAP!

Rosey3_8

Fingers crossed for tomorrow!

sarahncliff

afternoon all!
I'm a 35 year old trying for baby number one! we've been trying since October and although I know its not going to happen just like that, I cant help but feel a little cheated every month when arrives!!!! my doc has been lovely! she's sent me for my day 21 blood test that I got last Friday and will start the ball rolling with other tests after that as she didnt want to wait too long cos of my age!!
is due this Friday, so as per usual, I'm trying not to think about it but can think of nothing else at the mo!
anyhoo, best of luck to everyone out there, maybe our isnt too far away.
love n kisses
S

wannabeozymum

Hi All,

I'm 34 and my DH is 39. We've been casually trying for our first together (my DH has 8yo daughter already) since I came off depo last year (Oct 2007 was my last injection). Currently 6 days late with my AF but so far only - could be depo isn't out of my system yet.

Really glad to find a site that is specifically for 30s plus!

x

Rumpskin

Good luck ladies xxx

babymaybe

Hi Mair - glad I'm not the only one keeping a secret!! I think probably most of my family and friends think I'm more interested in my career but if only they knew the truth about the monthly obsessing and constant broody state! Good luck to you too - where abouts are you in your cycle? due 21st for me.

CHILLbilly

I keep forgetting about this thread..........
I'm going to read a few more pages and then say a big HI to everyone.
I posted a few months ago and lost track of all of you over 30 ladies.
I just turned 37 and of course my first cycle at this age is kind of messed up.

I'll be back to chat!!!!!