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Hi....Im a newbie
Little bit of background....
Joined here for some support....kept passing and have finally registered!!
Been wanting a baby for about 4 years now....was with my previous partner for three years when we decided to have a baby and after having been on the contraceptive injection for 7 years(!) thought it would not happen quickly. However, i came off the injection in November and found out i was pregnant in May. Unfortunately by By this time, my boyfriend decided he didn’t want to be a dad again (he had a previous child from another relationship) and threw me out of our home! I was so stressed and was very sick and had to be hospitalised during which time I regretfully decided to have a termination as I did not want to bring a child into such a bad situation.
Since then, I finished the relationship with him and met my current partner who is 29 and we have been together for over a year and he definitely wants kids and lots of them which is what I want too. We have been trying for a baby for 6 months now and nothing is happening!! I feel that its my punishment for having a termination.
Its really horrible when its all you can think about and everyone around you is having babies and your not. I also get “you have lots of time” said to me on many a occasion and thought I would sign up and talk to other women who understand what I feel.
Anyway I hope you wont judge me too much, I appreciate its not nice to hear of someone terminating a pregnancy when others are trying so hard for one (this is definitely on my conscience).
Rachiebaby you are NOT being punished in any way hun! You did what, at the time, was your better judgment, but that's definitely not the reason you can't conceive today . Sometimes it does take a while for some of us...if you read around they state the average to conceive is somewhere between 5-8 months! In the end though, i believe we will all be blessed with a bump!! Lots of luck to you and welcome to the forums.
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Hi my name is Zooey I'm 24 just turned and my DH is 22. been married for 2years and with him for 4yrs. We have been TTC for 2 yrs and I finally got pregnant in Nov but miscarried in Dec. I am still going to continue on my journey to achieve my miracle wish.
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you are NOT being punished in any way hun! You did what, at the time, was your better judgment, but that's definitely not the reason you can't conceive today 
and welcome to the forums.
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