Firebabe

Hmm If that was me Id put myself first before my Brother
goodluck!

porkpie1981

I would keep trying. If u get a something wil lbe worked out

HAYS

aww hun, i personally would carry on ttc, but I know you must really want to be at your bro's wedding. Its a tough one but go with your heart
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butterflies

Go with your heart honey, this is so tough on you and all added stress.
Whatever you decide to do will be the right thing for you & i hope your brother understands.
What does your DH think?

Annaspanna

Hey!

Kinda simular situation,
I'm getting married in Antigua in June and my best friend (who means A LOT to me) was trying TTC, she ended up with a BFP, and won't be coming next mnth now. I totally understand, and am soooooooo happy for her!! In my opinion, I have chosen to go so far away to get married, i can't expect everyone to come all that way or to put their life on hold until the big day, it's not fair. I'm sure ur bro will feel the same, so I shouldn't worry! Make sure u have a big party when he gets back and make a fuss of him and his wife!

Hope u get ur very soon xx

TrixieLox

Hubby wants us to carry on trying. I'll see how I feel in 2 months. I'm not kidding, every single person I've asked for advice on this one has told me to carry on trying. We'll see ... hopefully, I won't have to worry if I get my BFP in 2 months. x

Emsi76

My brother would understand if i got Pregnant and couldn't go....his decision to do it the other side of the world!

Keep TTC!!!

Kipps

i would carry on tyring too... it must be very difficult but u have to think of yourself as well...

im sure your brother would understand if you couldnt go because you were going to be bringing his niece/nephew into the world.... it would be selfish of him to ask you to stop something that your heart desires for something his desires too.... loving someone is about making sacifices sometimes.. im sure he would forgive you once a bubba turned up...

good luck with whatever you decide to do

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Lazy Leo

Hey Trix, this is a real gut wrencher for you and I'm guessing lots of people saying keep trying doesn't make it any easier?! (no offense to those who have said that, it's my opinion as well!!) I'm close to my family and I appreciate how much you want to share your brother's big day with him.

My advice on decisions like these is simple to say but difficult to put into practice: your heart is saying one thing (keep trying, what if that would have been the month?) and your head another (it's only a couple of months, it won't make that much difference) but if you look at your feelings really, really deeply one instinct will be slightly stronger than the other. Trust that instinct pet. I know you might immediately think 'but its equally split' but it won't be, look deep and one will be stronger - trust your own instincts.

Everyone will be here for you however it works out xxx

_Alice_

Really is a hard one sweetheart. Personally, i would keep trying, and see what happens. You have been trying so hard, and you desverve it so much. If it happens, it happens.
If this wedding is more important, then stop trying. But i think deep in your heart, this is not what you want. xx