awww...........dont you just hate the "well meaning" comments that i can't help but feel they all sound so patronising to my ears!!!!
Friend of mine & DH's, whom i work with was TTc for 3 years before his OH fell pg with their daughter, and since they announced it and now that she is born, its pretty much all i hear....that and when's it going to be you, you've been trying for some time now etc etc.
I'm so happy for them, but then i can't help but feel that 7 months isn't 3 years and i know how bitchy that sounds and i feel, so awful because of it, but i can't help it. Every time i hear it said i want to

because we've not been trying that long and my heart goes out to said friends and all those who have, but it hurts that they seem to have forgotten whats behind them
