As u may all know my and the oh have decided to wait a few montsh to start ttc. I really want to start now but money and uni reasons we said september/octover.

The thing is we did the bd last nite unprotected There was condoms in the room but we didnt bother TBH i wanted it that way. I actually think he does to but he freaks out at actually admitting he wants to ttc now.

Hes really nervous around hopsital and goes all red and sweats when hes there( they make him really anxious).

Last time b4 b4 i got my he started freaking out saying mybe we should leave it a few months. Its not that he doesnt want another one as he does i think its all the hype.

Sooooooo i think i going to leave my wttc tickers up and say nothing and continue as we are and mybe i mite have a nice surprise sooner than expected or mybe he mite say we should start using condoms again until september/october, who know

Its not like he thinks im on bc and lieing, hes knows what we are doing .

Do u think i should not meation it?

I hope i dont look like im tricking him( as im not) just woondered if any of u where ini the same sitution

Well he knows that you are not on the pill, and if you arent using condoms, then of course he should know the inevitable might just happen.

I wouldnt say anything and wait for him to mention it!

yeh ditto that xxx

Yes you're not tricking him - maybe he really wants it so it's ok to take a chance! I wouldn't mention it unless he does. Sometimes we over analyse things, mentioning it might freshen his mind as to why you were meant to be waiting and spoil what is currently going on!
i've done it myself saying are you sure a million times until he's not!

I wouldn't bother - I think men know these things they just don't like talking about it. He knows what he's doing so just carry on going with the flow and see where it takes u x

thanks girls.

I sorta feel sneaky tho as i keep looking at my ticker thinking "right im gonna have to do it this time and around this date" even tho we arent supposed to be trying

lol.....I'm sure you are not tricking him. By now he should know the consequences of unprotected sex. I'm sure he wants a little one too. Guys aren't as open about it as girls.

well u are right there as i got pregnant twice in the first attempt(well 1st was really unplanned) and the second i had a mc

So he does know

I wouldn't mention it either.

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( - wasn't me, just happened to be flying around )

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