So i'm feeling really down this morning, AF arrived yesterday, this will be my 17th cycle. Feels like i'm never going to see that

You will get that

I know it's hard but you have to keep positive and when you get there, all this hard work will be worth it. xxx

it took me 3 years to conceive my little girl and boy everytime that dreaded time of the month came around i cried i had, had enough i just relaxed and thought never in a million years is this going to happen and hey presto it did 1 month later i was shocked because i really didnt think it was going to happen, just try relax and enjoy it will happen x x

Im so sorry the dreaded got you!

I cant even begin to understand what it feels like to have to wait so long!

I am sure you will get your long awaited BFP very very soon - probably when you least expect it!

Ah, sorry hon. Have you been to your dr yet? It's advised you go after a year of trying (I went after 6 months, tee hee!). x

Hey hun, sorry got u. Hang on in there in there - took me 24 cycles to concieve ds and he was well worth the wait. It will happen for you. Have u seen the doc yet? xx

I went to see my doctor when we had been trying to conceive for around 10 month. She told me that we hadn't been trying long enough. She told me that it could be that i'm not ovulating due to having the Mirena Coil removed 10 month previous. She said if i had not of conceived by spring, to go back and see her and she'd transfer me and OH to a fertility clinic. It's spring now, but i'm just really scared to go back! It just feels like i'm never going to get there and i can't help but cry to myself. I feel so stupid but it does take it's toll on you when you have been trying for so long.

sorry she got you chick, don't loose hope, your time WILL come and you WILL get you

aww hun ive been feeling the same, you just got to try and think,it will happen it will happen, easier said then done!
big hugs
xxxxxxx

Thanks for your replies girls, it really means alot to me!...I know we're all going through the same thing, but it's hard to imagine when you have been trying for so long. I feel really selfish feeling the way i do knowing i'm not the only one feeling this way. I have faith i will get my it's just a matter of being patient i supose!