Awhh Yeah... Lets hope it is. Ill keep my fingers crossed for you

I think thats what im like. My OH keeps wanting me to buy test after test after test, but im just fedup of seeing the . Even though the next one might not be, i dont want to risk it. Im just going to carry on as normal and if AF still doesnt show in a few weeks then that will be the time. But as someone has said before, because im a teenager they could just be irregular still so im just trying to get it off my mind.

I try so hard not to come onto this site because everytime i do it all just comes rushing back to my head but i just cant keep away too addictive ! hehe

xx

Yeah I know! They should put limited access on - like you can use the site for an hour a day only!

hey hun just read all your friends and Im sorry your not getting an answer that is concluding all your preggo symptons!!!

before I feel pregnant I did a test ( i was certain I was pregnant) I bought tesco ones.... 2 for £4!! (you might have better luck with these) but it gave me a BFN!!! And the day after my period came!!!! I really think my body was so stressed thinking I was pregnant and worrying about a BFP (for selfish reasons, birthday and holiday coming up) that my period didnt come!!!

I definetly suggest going to the family planning clinic and have your worries answered!!! xxx

thanks hun.

im definately going as soon as i can. hopefully this week.

what i want to know is is it better to go to the doctors or the family planning clinic ? or either ?

xx

family planning defo.....!!!
doctors.. you may have to wait for results!! xx good luck xx

Yep get yourself off to the FPC Laura they can test you striaght away! Im sure the mere thought of it all is what is stopping this little madam turning up >> LOL!

You sure do seem wise beyond your years and I just hope when my daughter is your age she is just as sensible! Although she is banned from having sex until she is at least 25 LOL!

Good Luck sweetie, I hope you get your desired outcome!

Big and keep us updated x x

Thanks for everyones advice and support throughout my posts.

Well... showed up today. I couldnt believe it.

I thought i would be happy to haev her show up. But all day ive just cried and cried. I feel so lost and like ive lost something that was so special. Even though this *baby* wasnt planned. After long hard thinking that it may be true, i loved it already. Well.. saying it, nothing was ever there in the first place. Me n my OH spend more or less all of our time taling about it, how we would raise it, how we would cope and afford to care for it, we just seemed to get everything sorted. We even brought a savings tin and had started saving !

I just feel so loss and lonely.. i really had convinced myself a little bean was inside me. All the feelings and emotions i had.. where did they come from ? there just seems to be so many questions unanswered which can now no longer be answred.

I just feel as if i need this baby now to make me complete. I know its going to sound stupid cus im only a teenager, i have my whole life ahead of me, ect ect, but i really had my life planned from now on. I felt like i had it all sorted.( even though life NEVER goes the way you want it to ), atleast i had a track to TRY to follow. I just felt my life was dedicated to that baby now. Most people will tell me ' atleast you can carry on living your life yuong, enjoy you teenage years, enjoy having little responsibility' but to be quite honest, im fedup of living young, im fedup of being treated as a kid and im fedup of having no responsibilies. I feel its my place to have responsibilities and be the rock on someones life. To be honest i cant remember the last time i felt young. Since i can remember ive had to act like an adult and look out for others before myself, i just thought this baby would make the most of me now, give ma reason for life and an actual gift for being the caring, responsible ' kid' i am.

Im sorry if this post drags on.. i just feel so lost .

hun Im sorry it wasnt the result you wanted but I truely believe that everything happens for a reason!!! You sound like a very grown up 16 year old but I strongly believe you should enjoy being young with no responsibilities!!!!!
Im 22 with NO regrets at all.... been to uni... girly holidays galore!!! I couldnt imagine having a 6 year old now... !!!
Enjoy your life hun.... because you only get one!!!

I do understand what your saying i really do. And it is exactly what i would be saying to other people. But people really dont understand.. i really dont have a 'life' as you call it. I hardly go out, the only time i see my friends is pretty much in school, i dont enjoy smoking,drinking,clubbing, all that. I haev no idea why.. but its really just not my thing.

I hardly go out because well.. most of the time i dont want to go out, and i dont anyway because i spend most of my time either at school or at work or then helping out my family with the cooking cleaning and so on. I dont enjoy going out.. i suppose its because my friends are way to immature for me so i cant really have a lugh with them intnhe way they want because they are just really immature, so i dont enjoy going out with them. I know thatll proberly be different when i meet new friends though.

Saying all that though.. im not complaining what so ever. I have nothing to moan about in my life. Im happy.. i might not have the best life as in cant go out all the time, i have to do house chores, i have to work, and all that. But im happy doing that. Im happy to be at school, come home , study, cook, ect ect, then on saturdays go to work, then my Boyfriend stays over and on sunday i basically clean up, cook the dinner and get ready for the week. Thats basically my life, and to me that already sounds pretty much like im past my 'young years'.

Oh and.. looking back i can see enough spelling errors to last a life time.. haha.. sorry

but a baby wont solve your problems hun... and wont automatically give you a life!!! You are only 16.... maybe in a couple of years time you will enjoy going out clubbing!!
Im sure you will meet new friends... whats your plan?? college?? full time work?? !!
Cooking??? Gosh I dont even cook now lol!!!
Dont wish your life away babe.... !! Theres plenty of time for families and motherhood xx