oh my god. how did i not get that! what a doofus!

I would just like to say thank you for responding and explaining yourself. I think what we all forget - especially after being in so much pain from an incident - is that other people's feelings get hurt just as much as ours. Try to remember that these people just make a couple of mistakes sometimes - I can only empathize the pain you feel from the miscarriage, and for being able to get through that you are greatly admired. Big for you today!