Snowball

I'm not sure I'm going to be around here as much as I have been.

I love you all loads but I'm obsessing already and it's silly because we haven't even been ttc for 2 weeks yet I've stopped enjoying sex and only seem to want it for the possible result and it's not fair on my DH. I'm going to try and relax and treat myself to a few drinks and when it's ready to happen, it'll happen I hope. I just need to take my mind off of ttc for a couple of weeks.

I'm still going to be around and I'm probably going to turn into a total hypocrite because I'll be posting by the end of the day but I'm going to give having a break a go. We're going away at the end of next week so if I can leave the ttc talk until we get back I think it'll do me good

Christ, I feel all upset saying this because I'm going to miss you all!

If you catch me around please beat me away with a big stick

Marker

Sort of get what you mean hun. We've only tried one weekend now and I havent stopped thinking about it, I am so hypocrital cos Im telling people not to think about it and blowing my own advice lol.

Hope you have a lovely holiday and enjoy the fun times again, good luck xx

HAYS

awww snowball, glad your deciding to relax and think about yourself and hubby,it will do you good!!!

will miss u too hunny
xxx

Dee_H

We will miss you but totally understand where you are coming from. Good luck to you and your DH.

rachelle1975

Have a really nice break away and you are right - have a few drinks, chill out and enjoy you and hubby. I'm sure it'll happen sooner rather than later x x x

Shel

Hiya hun, very good idea, its all consuming. not good for your head, I hope you manage to chill on your break, we are having a break at the end of this month, maybe we will come back with stowaways lol.

butterflies

ahhh snowball honey, we will all be thinking of you. hope to see you back soon, i understand completely why you would need a break and i think perhaps we all feel its becoming too much every now and again. Its good that you can step back a little hun. Look after yourself

Beltane

Those drinks may lead to some hanky panky! Be good to yourself and take a breather if you can.

tinytoes

sounds like a great idea. Take the summer out to relax have a few drinks, nejoy your holly-bops and have a great time with your current babies.
It's been so soon since your terrible times - I think a little break would do you heaps of good.

Join another forum - home cookery?! get fit?! young already-mums? - and focus your energies on that? So you still have something to obsess on when you get the urge to go on line...we all need our obsessions.

Good luck snowball xxx

elm

Enjoy your time away - hope it does you lots of good x