after thinking so long and hard about ttc, and deciding it was a good idea, ive recently been thinking that we are not ready for this.

just little things that creep up in our relationship tells me that just now is not the best time to be trying. it might sound stupid but its not one big thing, but so many small things that i'm terrified that we'll be making a mistake to do this now.

might give it a while and see where that takes us

good luck, im pretty sure i'll be here regularly! and hope you all get so soon!

Hi Meg

I think you are being very sensible for what it is worth.

Take care lovely and hopefully, we will see you back with your

Oh sweetie, for when the time is right

oh hun, I hope you sort everything out, and a huge congrats on being so sensible in realising that having a baby wont save your relationship.. not mentioning any names*coughmysistercough*
I hope to see you in here soon, and good luck at righting the wrongs
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its good that u have been mature about it all hun, good luck for when you do start trying and hope to see you back on here
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Good for you in thinking about the potential baby and not yourselves!!

Hope it all works out well in the end!

Oh I'm sorry hon but it sounds like you're making a very sensible decision and putting your baby first - you'll make a great mum when the time is right for you xxx

Listening to that little voice in your head is the smartest thing you could ever do. Kudos to you for being selfless!

Thanks to all of you - its been really hard to accept that its not the right thing to do at the moment, no matter how much I think I want a baby!

so impressed with your strength and wisdom x

Best wishes for everything