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Old May 5th, 2008, 02:15 AM   #1
Nic-Flowers
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Our decision


Tonight OH and I talked about it and I wanted to let you know we are not going to "try" anymore. We are going to try to just let it happen naturally. I will no longer be charting online or planning to BD at certain times. I am a little upset that it came to this but the stress is too much. We are going to be spontaneous.

I will still come and read [and post] on your threads. I love you all but we need a break. I hope all of you get your BFPs! [and soon!]

I am waiting to test this cycle but if the witch comes we start the relaxation and take the break for a while.

I know it can still happen for me because I conceived our little angel [Gabe] without all of the charting and such. I just want to see all of you in First Trimester when I arrive. Take care girls. My MSN is in the girly sanctuary thread...feel free to talk to me!


 
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Old May 5th, 2008, 02:20 AM   #2
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Awh ... I know how you feel - I've been at this ttc on and off since October 2004. I think we all need to take a break every so often or we'd end up demented.

You never know, you might not need to worry about taking your ttc break, you might get your this month anyway.

Good luck with your ttc break. Hope to see you in the 1st Tri forum soon...



 
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Old May 5th, 2008, 02:25 AM   #3
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Thank You for the comment, I am nearly in tears because TTC has become such a big part of my life I am afraid I won't know what to do with myself. I crochet and make jewelry...that might kill some time...and when I am back trying I may have pressies for you all.


 
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Old May 5th, 2008, 02:33 AM   #4
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Yippee - pressies!!!

I make greetings cards in moments of stress - much better than kicking the dog!! Plus i can't be arrested for making cards...


 
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Old May 5th, 2008, 02:39 AM   #5
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Good luck hun, hope it helps u relax and get ur BFP. Trying not to think about TTC is harder than actually thinking about TTC so just do whatever u can to keep busy. Hopefully see u on here soon announcing ur BFP x


 
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Old May 5th, 2008, 04:45 AM   #6
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Plus i can't be arrested for making cards...
That really does depend....

Nic we're all addicts. It's not healthy and we know it but we tell ourselves it's for a bigger cause. It will be real nasty not temping and not POASing for a while then life as you used to know it before this TTC malarkey will return. I do think you have the right attitude, a break may be just what you need to get to your

Best of luck and we'll be here and increasingly more crazy when you return a sane woman!


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Old May 5th, 2008, 05:44 AM   #7
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Good luck hun, I hope you find some peace, you deserve it.

oh and I concieved 4 of my 8 pregnancies while letting nature take its course.

(unfortunatly for me i have too many medical problems and doing that is not an option for me as I now know, of those 4, 3 ended in m/c, but thats a whole nuther story lol)


 
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Old May 5th, 2008, 05:49 AM   #8
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u will probably find that you will get your BFP when u relax and stop charting it all, good luck hun xx


 
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Old May 5th, 2008, 06:53 AM   #9
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Oh sweetie,

I wish you all the best, don't stray too far because we will miss you


Lots of luck


 
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Old May 5th, 2008, 06:56 AM   #10
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I wish you all the best, don't stray too far because we will miss you
I'll second that!!

You go off and have a good rest honey, im sure it'll do you the world of good


 
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