so I originally thought that I OV'd on May 3rd. then I did one of those charts and it said it was on April 21st. But friday night CM was watery and then yesterday morning it was eggwhite. We BD like 5 times yesterday happydance: yay for birthday sex! So I will test on the 15th!
Confusing or not you have to keep to it before it starts to make sense a few cycles later. It couldn't have well been more confusing than it is now when you thought you were approaching AF and instead you just O, right?
Once you start charting and using OPKs and so on it will all feel so much more clear and you'll feel so much more in control. Give it a shot and good luck!