Need reasurance..

pinkmommy · May 3rd, 2008, 23:03 PM

My DR passed me onto the RE and they wants DH to do a SA. My DR (OB/GYN) did not request one my first round of clomid b/c she felt he has fathered child (my Daughter) in the last three years (3 years ago this week I just found out I was pregnant) and thought he was fine. Now the RE wants a SA.

What are the chances he has issues? He does not smoke, bike, take super hot baths or shower, he is only 33 and wears boxers.

I am afraid it will come back as issues and then we will have to do the IUI, and we have no coverage for infertility procedures.

REASSURE me he is probably fine. PLEASE, I am freaking out.

Plus they want the sample to be within the hour of him giving it, which will be hard b/c he works from 6:30 - 4pm and the lab it only ope form 7:30 - 4pm.

FREAKING OUT about this. And was freaking out that now we have to see a RE. Who wnats to do 2 cycle of clomid with montioring and if it doe snot work then move onto the IUI. We have no coverage or money just laying around.

Shel · May 4th, 2008, 02:51 AM

hun I'm sure it will be just fine and if not then you will cope with it, ttc makes us stronger, madder but stronger i'm sure of that.

and if they did find anything wrong then it will proberbly be a minor thing, seeing as he has fathered a child already.

cant he start work a couple of hours later or tack a sick day or days holiday?

I hope you get your bfp soon

rachelle1975 · May 4th, 2008, 02:56 AM

I would say that it's probably going to be A okay chick.
They should have probably checked before you went on Clomid and they are back tracking a bit now. Your DR prob just wants to double check so that you don't have to go through with the Clomid if there is another more suitable option.
I bet he comes back with champion swimmers!!!
Good luck and try not to worry x

magicvw · May 4th, 2008, 06:09 AM

I think they just want to double check with the SA so they can rule it out - you OH sounds like he'll be just fine! Don't stress chicken! (I know it's probably useless me saying that tho!

NeyNey · May 4th, 2008, 06:35 AM

Honey I've learned over the years that it's pointless to panic until you have a definite reason to

thinking of you, all the best sweetie

pinkmommy · May 4th, 2008, 12:16 PM

Thanks ladies, Praying he is fine and the next round of clomid works, My chart is all wacky, I had a huge temp rise today but fel I did not O yet, guess we will see. Thanks, as for the scheduling we will work it out.

May 3rd, 2008, 23:03 PM	#1
pinkmommy Trying to conceive (TTC) Active BnB Member Join Date: Jan 2008 Posts: 187	Need reasurance.. My DR passed me onto the RE and they wants DH to do a SA. My DR (OB/GYN) did not request one my first round of clomid b/c she felt he has fathered child (my Daughter) in the last three years (3 years ago this week I just found out I was pregnant) and thought he was fine. Now the RE wants a SA. What are the chances he has issues? He does not smoke, bike, take super hot baths or shower, he is only 33 and wears boxers. I am afraid it will come back as issues and then we will have to do the IUI, and we have no coverage for infertility procedures. REASSURE me he is probably fine. PLEASE, I am freaking out. Plus they want the sample to be within the hour of him giving it, which will be hard b/c he works from 6:30 - 4pm and the lab it only ope form 7:30 - 4pm. FREAKING OUT about this. And was freaking out that now we have to see a RE. Who wnats to do 2 cycle of clomid with montioring and if it doe snot work then move onto the IUI. We have no coverage or money just laying around.

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May 4th, 2008, 02:51 AM	#2
Shel Pregnant (Expecting) Active BnB Member Join Date: Apr 2008 Location: Surrey,UK Posts: 302	hun I'm sure it will be just fine and if not then you will cope with it, ttc makes us stronger, madder but stronger i'm sure of that. and if they did find anything wrong then it will proberbly be a minor thing, seeing as he has fathered a child already. cant he start work a couple of hours later or tack a sick day or days holiday? I hope you get your bfp soon

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May 4th, 2008, 02:56 AM	#3
rachelle1975 Mum (Mom) BnB Addict Join Date: Apr 2008 Location: Surrey Posts: 9,105	I would say that it's probably going to be A okay chick. They should have probably checked before you went on Clomid and they are back tracking a bit now. Your DR prob just wants to double check so that you don't have to go through with the Clomid if there is another more suitable option. I bet he comes back with champion swimmers!!! Good luck and try not to worry x

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May 4th, 2008, 06:09 AM	#4
magicvw Trying to conceive (TTC) BnB Elite Join Date: Apr 2008 Location: the Dark Ages Posts: 15,348	I think they just want to double check with the SA so they can rule it out - you OH sounds like he'll be just fine! Don't stress chicken! (I know it's probably useless me saying that tho!

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May 4th, 2008, 06:35 AM	#5
NeyNey Trying to conceive (TTC) BnB Addict Join Date: Dec 2007 Location: NSW, Australia Posts: 8,581	Honey I've learned over the years that it's pointless to panic until you have a definite reason to thinking of you, all the best sweetie

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May 4th, 2008, 12:16 PM	#6
pinkmommy Trying to conceive (TTC) Active BnB Member Join Date: Jan 2008 Posts: 187	Thanks ladies, Praying he is fine and the next round of clomid works, My chart is all wacky, I had a huge temp rise today but fel I did not O yet, guess we will see. Thanks, as for the scheduling we will work it out.

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