Hello all, I hope you are all doing well. I swear some people just don't think befor they speak. Today I went down to this little store that is right by my house, (we live in a very small town and everyone knows everyone) I went up to pay for my stuff and the girl say so Teresa are you pg yet??? I just give her a quick NO and then she says well you better hurry up because so and so is pg and she went on to name 3 other girls, I could have just lost it. I tried to stay calm and I said no we are not pg yet and then she says well I thought you started clomid I said well yes but we still did not have any luck with that yet, then she has the nerve to say well you did get pg but you loss it right, I am like yes then she says how long ago was that? I felt myself ready to cry and I told her that our baby would have been due next month and I had grab my stuff and walk out. REALLY where do some people get there nerve? I would never drill anyone like that. She is a girl who get pg without even tring so she really has no clue what dh and I are going throught. Thanks so much fot letting me vent.

aww love, that must have been tough! some people just have NO CLUE! I'm so sorry cheers, hun, i know you will have your miracle baby soon wishing you all the best!!

honestly some people

I have a sis-in-law like that - they just don't care (although sometimes I swear she does it on purpose).

When we were ttc DS we had been trying a few months and getting nowhere fast when she found out she was PG. Her first thing to say to me was 'Oh no, I'll be gutted, what am I going to say to this girl who works with me about being PG when she's been trying for ages, I feel so bad' - hello!!!!

Anyway, I think we should just ignore these people and leave them in their own ignorance xx

ahhh hun, honecstly some people are so thoughless,
it will happen soon

And you managed not to slap her??? OMG!!! She's probably just jealous of all the hot loving you are getting when she is getting none!!!!!

i am guilty of being the person who used to say to her friends 'you PG yet?' but would never go any further than that. Now i'm on the receiving end of TTC i won't be harassing anyone in a hurry! i learnt my lesson!!

aww hun

some people don't realize that they are being insensitive and figure if they were in your situations they might feel diff but they are not! I am sorry this got you upset! Believe me I know the feeling of thinking your the only one around that is not preg and it is constantly in your face. You have to be strong and think good thoughts, as it will be you one day!!!

I just got my bfp after a long while, and my BIL gf was asking me how long it took, as it took her one try...and she was shocked that it took us this long. Some people just think that it is super easy when it really isn't sometimes.

I hope you feel better!!! !

Some people are extremely insensitive and tactless. Try and keep positive hun - you'll get your BFP very soon.