why is being so difficult?!I want to be pregnant!!

amapola · May 3rd, 2008, 17:23 PM

Sorry girls for the rant, I had a very bad day at work. I work in a small supermarket and all I see is pregnant women, today I saw at least 15! some of them with another little boy o girl. One of the ladies had one girl around 4, a little boy around 2 and pregnant with number 3, I'd say 7 months.And the worst bit, I saw a girl I used to get together with when our little girls were babies,I havent seen her for months, and guess what? she is nearly 8 months pregnant. I know I'm being unfair here because I do have a daugther already but I wanted my kids to be close in age and month after month this is getting more impossible. I am feeling crap today and I cant tell my DH because his answer is always the same 'why are you so upset about? it will come when is time'. but I want it to be soon

Nic-Flowers · May 3rd, 2008, 17:30 PM

I see so many pregnant women everywhere. And one of my old friends has three children and is TTC again...why is it so easy for them? I wish we could get our BFPs but it seems nearly impossible.

My SIL has four children, and when she would talk to me she acted as if I weren't trying, she said "you have to try o get pregnant? I have to try not to!"
It is really hurtful...I just want my baby...and I hope you get another soon!

magicvw · May 3rd, 2008, 17:33 PM

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Originally Posted by Nic-Flowers

Ishe said "you have to try o get pregnant? I have to try not to!"

OUCH!

That's SO mean!
Here's some

:dus t:
for everyone in this forum!!!

Hollywog · May 3rd, 2008, 17:40 PM

Wow...I'm sorry, but that's a bit insensitive...I'd probably start to cry. Then again, it doesn't take much for me to cry.
I'm in the same boat...I want to be a momma bad. My DH and I are trying again this month, but it's really hard not to be cynical about it. Ya know? Make any sense? Plus, I'm getting the ol, "just let it happen, and you're trying too hard.." Blah, blah blah.
I will really put my prayers out there for you.

Nic-Flowers · May 3rd, 2008, 17:43 PM

We don't need the mean people we have each other

Yay for B&B

_Alice_ · May 3rd, 2008, 17:56 PM

Oh hun, sorry your feeling so down. I always say wait it out, and your time will come eventually!

Good things come to those who wait! xo

May 3rd, 2008, 17:23 PM	#1
amapola Pregnant (Expecting) Active BnB Member Join Date: Apr 2008 Location: london Posts: 47	why is being so difficult?!I want to be pregnant!! Sorry girls for the rant, I had a very bad day at work. I work in a small supermarket and all I see is pregnant women, today I saw at least 15! some of them with another little boy o girl. One of the ladies had one girl around 4, a little boy around 2 and pregnant with number 3, I'd say 7 months.And the worst bit, I saw a girl I used to get together with when our little girls were babies,I havent seen her for months, and guess what? she is nearly 8 months pregnant. I know I'm being unfair here because I do have a daugther already but I wanted my kids to be close in age and month after month this is getting more impossible. I am feeling crap today and I cant tell my DH because his answer is always the same 'why are you so upset about? it will come when is time'. but I want it to be soon

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May 3rd, 2008, 17:30 PM	#2
Nic-Flowers Other Active BnB Member Join Date: Mar 2008 Posts: 865	I see so many pregnant women everywhere. And one of my old friends has three children and is TTC again...why is it so easy for them? I wish we could get our BFPs but it seems nearly impossible. My SIL has four children, and when she would talk to me she acted as if I weren't trying, she said "you have to try o get pregnant? I have to try not to!" It is really hurtful...I just want my baby...and I hope you get another soon!

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May 3rd, 2008, 17:40 PM	#4
Hollywog Trying to conceive (TTC) New BnB Member Join Date: Apr 2008 Posts: 7	Wow...I'm sorry, but that's a bit insensitive...I'd probably start to cry. Then again, it doesn't take much for me to cry. I'm in the same boat...I want to be a momma bad. My DH and I are trying again this month, but it's really hard not to be cynical about it. Ya know? Make any sense? Plus, I'm getting the ol, "just let it happen, and you're trying too hard.." Blah, blah blah. I will really put my prayers out there for you.

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May 3rd, 2008, 17:43 PM	#5
Nic-Flowers Other Active BnB Member Join Date: Mar 2008 Posts: 865	We don't need the mean people we have each other Yay for B&B

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May 3rd, 2008, 17:56 PM	#6
_Alice_ Trying to conceive (TTC) Inactive Join Date: Jan 2008 Location: UK Posts: 827	Oh hun, sorry your feeling so down. I always say wait it out, and your time will come eventually! Good things come to those who wait! xo

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