So you tested and got a and reared her ugly head... do you wallow in self pity, or convince yourself that it's ok because of something you wanted to do?

I try to do the latter but it's wearing thin after so long TTC lol

What are your "conslation excuses"?

mine have been;-

I really want to fit into that dress/those jeans.
I can have a drink when I go out.
I can dye my hair.
I don't feel guilty spending another £100 on clothes from hubbys catalogue coz I'll still be able to wear them in 6 weeks.

i just tell myself there is always next month! and i can still loose 5 pounds until next month (i never do so)

We're moving countries and careers in a few weeks so I keep telling myself that it would be better if things happened a bit later so we got settled in properly. If I really meant that though, we'd be holding off ttc for a bit!

Yeah but the reasons change every month I think! It usually something like - now I can drink at so and so's party!

Try, the time isn't right and maybe if I was pregnant now I wouldn't be in six weeks time cos nature would take its course anyway.

Its tough love but I find it works when I'm getting bitter xx

hugs

I have a bottle of my favourite wine chilling in the fridge through the whole TWW, if I get a BFN and AF arrives, I pop that sucker open!