my usual doctor has gone away on his hols - how dare he??!!
the one i saw said the following - pretty much word for word
"well, we know there's nothing wrong as you have carried 2 babies successfully before and presuming it is the same father there is really nothing we can do. you are just going to have to get over it?"

Now, i know that is true, and I also know that i should stop testing early so technically i would't know (except i do know......my symptoms tell me i am pg and then they stop - suddenly and i also know deep down that it has gone before i even get any results back) but i don't need to be told that by a health care professional. Am i being too emotional and touchy abuot this? i was so upset, she really put me back to square one. I asked again about the baby asprin and she said, "if you want to do that then go ahead but if it isn't going to be successful then there really isn't anything we can do. Misscarriages are very very common".
and a bit more

Aw hun, u poor thing, it must be so frustrating knowing that you're almost there and then taken away from you. Are the docs willing to look into it further down the line - how long have u been ttc?

Stupid docs, half of them don't think there's a person behind the complaint!

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Omg, I can't believe how uncaring some doc's can be!!! So sorry you had to go through that hun You are so not being too emotional or touchy about it either!! I swear hearing this kind of story makes me want to somebody!! Can you not find another doc to go to? You deserve to talk to someone who can give you some real advice and help.



yaya xxx

Aww charming!!

Sorry they were like that with you hun

OMG what a knob head. fancy a doc being so unsympathetic

have a hope ur ok hun xxxxx

Doctors can be real idiots sometimes. I remember when I was laying in my hospital bed as I am going through having my m/c and the doc patted me on the knee andsaid "It's ok, you are young and healthy..you can have another one". I'm sorry you had a bad experience hun

how lovely put of them, !!!u poor thing hun
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I would ask to speak to another doctor about this. What he said was very insensitive.

That was very insensitive for him to say. Doesn't he know that you can have a healthy pregnancy (or multiple healthy pregnancies) and still develop problems conceiving later on (not that I'm saying you have but it IS possible, it happened to one of my nieces). Hope you can get in to see another doctor or your regular doctor soon

Im sorry chick, i didnt know youd been to docs already, thought you were waiting for your usual gp to come back from hols. Cant believe they were so unhelpful. Definitely go see your usual one after their hols and tell them how you feel, they have to help somehow, thats ridiculous! My auntie lost twins about 8 /9 years ago, then had her daughter whos fine, miscarried again 7 years later and shes 42 and they have investigated all sorts for her i think, just cos youve maintiane done preg doesnt mean they should ignore you!! Ill check in on your journal in morning. Good luck with puppy persuasion! xxx