I'm not expecitng loads of replies to this!

Basically before DH and I had DS, we had a very healthy happy sex life....every other night/sometimes everynight etc.

Since I has DS (OK since I got pregnant with DS) it's gone to zilch pretty much! Now I know it's all my issue...I have pain during BD and also tired and all the 1001 excuses I can think of.

So now I am desperate to have another child (after 4 years!!!), I ahve to get back into BDing regularly but am a bit scared!

Anyway I just wanted to share.

All By Myself, don't wanna be All By Myself, anymore.....

OK so it looks like I'm the only one!

to all!

I'm also the same as you....When i got pregnant with my son (he's 3 now) my sex drive went down hill and never really came back. We've been TTC for 16 month now and i've still no sex drive. i know it's my problem, and i need to get it sorted..somehow!

Me too - my DH thinks his luck is in these days, LOL!

My problem is my dh's lack of sex drive lol!!! Luckily, i always seem to 'feel in the mood' around the time of ov anyway -- not sure if that is real though or just because i'm desperate for sperm lol!!

Think about the end result hun!

Apparently the more you do it the more you want it! I am not sure if that is true though!

That's what my female doc told me about 6 months after my DS was born when I was thinking about TTC #2, it's taken until now to get going again....Oh well hopefully it will come back some day!

Nat, do you think it is a psychological issue for you or a physical issue? Or both perhaps?

Definitely both...I do have a lot of physical pain, had a little op in Jan to sort one of the issues out....but also the psychological side stems from the physical side!