all i keep thinking about is when im going to have sex its making me paranoid worry if i might not be doing it enough or doing it to much does any one else feel like that

I've been finding this too! It's quite difficult to switch off and enjoy the moment without thinking about positions and whether we're doing it at the right time. Have given myself a serious talking to though because that's just not on!

I'm terrible right now. Although I must say I do tend to forget why we're doing it whilst we're DTD. However it's bum on pillows the second it's over!

Lol, yup yup going through all that now actually

When ttc i found making love went out of the window it was pure sex just to get me preg,and i admit we probably did it to much,whether he was tired or i felt sick still the deed had to be done just incase that night could have been the 1.When i bought the cbfm sex wasnt half as often and blow me i got my bfp.But weve all been in your boat hun,it will happen i promise

Im doing the exact same thing, as soon as DH moves over im legs in the air, atleast he is very sweet about it, as he brings me a drink and a smoke in bed so i don't have to get up..

So funny as he always says you look like you have some kind of acrobatic routine to work out after Bding

Yeah -- it's good to know i'm not the only one lol!! I think i get so anxious about whether OH is going to be able to 'perform' though that i am somehow subtley causing things to bomb out!! Oh dear -- *sigh*....

Gosh .. me too! I'm always worrying that we haven't BD enough!!

I've gone through many stages. We BD all the time in the beginning then just every other day, then every few days to now we only do it with CBFM gives me PEAK and HIGHs. I noticed DH is beginning to feel a bit pressured about it all so I've decided we may need a break from TTC soon. We just need to turn the CBFM off and have fun instead of thinking about things so much!

lol......and you know.....when you have to wait a WHOLE day it is very frustrating. Ok like we had sex Monday and then we were waiting until today. Well all day yesterday I found myself just staring at him.lol. I really felt like a man.You know I was looking at him like a piece of meat. He got out of the shower and had just a towel around his waist. I had to walk away. And I told him he couldn't walk around in just his boxers or I'd rape him. lol. I can't help it.