Never in the mood

fudgey-cookie · Mar 18th, 2010, 17:57 PM

My partner and i decided to try for a family at the start or 2010! January and Febuary we were

lots but in march he's been so stressed at work he is just never in the mood i tried everything but he kept turning me down

i keep trying to tell myself its only a month, next month will be back to normal! But a month is a long time when TTC.

Should i just leave it now and wait for him? or keep asking (pestering) him for it!?? I'm trying to not let

making take over by decorating the house but its still constantly on my mind and by not having

regulary is getting me down because each month the chances of me being pregnant is less and less!!

Help me clear my mind a bit please!!

tommyg · Mar 18th, 2010, 18:56 PM

I would leave it this month and put it down to work stress but I would also try and have a chat with him. ie make sure he doesn't have "cold feet" over the baby idea.

Making him BD when he isn't in the mood will probably cause resentment and stress for you both.

maaybe2010 · Mar 18th, 2010, 19:13 PM

Yeah I too would leave it a month first and see how the situation is in April

My OH has totally been of

this month too

He can't give me a straight answer why though, however he is slowing starting to get himself back.

x x x

TySonNMe · Mar 18th, 2010, 19:59 PM

How about a little mini-vacation somewhere on the weekend to take his mind off the stress??

fudgey-cookie · Mar 19th, 2010, 03:15 AM

Thankyou everyone

you are right. i think i will just forget about march and hopefully April will be a good month. i just need to support him! Bring on April!!

pink_bow · Mar 19th, 2010, 03:29 AM

Tell me about it!
My OH has started a new job this week and really has not been interested at all

x

kookyklw · Mar 19th, 2010, 03:41 AM

Quote:

Originally Posted by pink_bow

Tell me about it!
My OH has started a new job this week and really has not been interested at all

x

Mine takes some getting going too. He blames my AF and says he is in the mood once that comes round (easy cop out!) and then says I am too tired or hormonal the rest of the time

What a loving couple we must sound

By the way, I love your avatar, Edward...mmmm.....!

x

Mar 18th, 2010, 17:57 PM	#1
fudgey-cookie Pregnant (Expecting) New BnB member Join Date: Mar 2010 Posts: 4	Never in the mood My partner and i decided to try for a family at the start or 2010! January and Febuary we were lots but in march he's been so stressed at work he is just never in the mood i tried everything but he kept turning me down i keep trying to tell myself its only a month, next month will be back to normal! But a month is a long time when TTC. Should i just leave it now and wait for him? or keep asking (pestering) him for it!?? I'm trying to not let making take over by decorating the house but its still constantly on my mind and by not having regulary is getting me down because each month the chances of me being pregnant is less and less!! Help me clear my mind a bit please!!

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tommyg Mum (Mom) BnB Addict Join Date: Jan 2010 Location: Scotland Posts: 2,662	I would leave it this month and put it down to work stress but I would also try and have a chat with him. ie make sure he doesn't have "cold feet" over the baby idea. Making him BD when he isn't in the mood will probably cause resentment and stress for you both.

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maaybe2010 Trying to conceive (TTC) BnB Addict Join Date: Mar 2010 Location: North West, UK Posts: 4,329	Yeah I too would leave it a month first and see how the situation is in April My OH has totally been of this month too He can't give me a straight answer why though, however he is slowing starting to get himself back. x x x

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TySonNMe Mum (Mom) BnB Addict Join Date: Jun 2009 Location: NE Florida Posts: 2,872	How about a little mini-vacation somewhere on the weekend to take his mind off the stress??

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Mar 19th, 2010, 03:15 AM	#5
fudgey-cookie Pregnant (Expecting) New BnB member Join Date: Mar 2010 Posts: 4	Thankyou everyone you are right. i think i will just forget about march and hopefully April will be a good month. i just need to support him! Bring on April!!

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Mar 19th, 2010, 03:29 AM	#6
pink_bow Other BnB Addict Join Date: Nov 2009 Location: Leeds Posts: 5,541	Tell me about it! My OH has started a new job this week and really has not been interested at all x

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