wishing4ababy

This forum is amazing - the women on here are the most amazing group of women that i have ever "known" - ever. I just wanted to say thank you for all the support you gave me last week adn for all the loevly posts i haev had over the weekend.
But i am 80% certain that we are going to be hanging up our TTC robes and walking away from this. I am tired - i don't want to keep going through this, and OH is adamant that we cannot keep putting ourselves through this. It isn't supposed to be this hard is it? I know that i am wallowing at the moment, but i went through this for 2 years when we were trying for our first, and i just don;t think i can do it again. I lost part of myself in those 2 years and if i am honest i don';t think i ever got it back. I am a shadow of me - i am constantly wishing my life away and then devastated at the end of it all.
ANyway, thank you again. And i truly wish every one of you a very soon.

jolyn

Aw hun, so sorry to hear that. I know, it's like nothing else matters when you're ttc. I was like that with my ds, after ttc for 2 years, it left me drained towards the end it. Now ttc no2 and I thought it wouldn't be so bad as we've already got ds, but it jut brings all the memories back and feels like ur right back where u strarted!

Hope ur feeling better soon and if you can, enjoy the relief of not ttc. Keep in touch tho x

HAYS

aww hun im sorry your feeling this way, ttc does take a toll on our lifes,and its a constant strain on everything.
I hope with whatever you decide you will be happy!!
xxx

biteable

well i will second everything youve said,the friendliness and support on here is fantasic,im sure you will get there in the end wishing for a baby butgood luck in wateva you decide

Lu28

Good luck with whatever you decide to do. It is a difficult time and I don't think it gets any easier just because it's not your first time! You've got to do what's right for you guys as a family

bird24

Oh hun....please dont leave unless you really have too, i do understand what you mean though so if its what you need to do i'll reall miss chatting to you

Thanks for all your support too chick xxx

Farie

Good luck in which ever decision you make, and you never know, may be walking away from TTC and the stresses and worry might just be what you need to get that

to both you and your OH

Lazy Leo

I'm so devasted for you at this time wishing. I cannot imagine what you must be going through. I hope everything works out for you and your family whatever decisions you and your hubby come to.

tansey

Hi hun, it's a hard decision to make but maybe you need the rest? Hope to chat again at some point! xx

_Alice_

Aww hun, thats a nice thing to say. B&B is a fantastic place, it's even better than my closest friends put together sometimes!
Good luck in whatever you decide, i really hope that one day soon, a BFP is placed right in front of you, you deserve it sweetie!

All the best xxx