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Apr 27th, 2008, 02:58 AM
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I'm Currently Feeling: | Please - Need support/advice - I'm sick of this Hey ladies - Here's what's going on with me - I am *almost* (will be in 1 hour) 10DPO and I really think that I am either pregnant or AF is coming NOW because I am beside myself with my body and my emotions. My chart is looking ok I guess, but everything else is falling apart. I snapped at the waiter today during lunch because he brought me extra sauce and I didn't need any, I moped around all day while shopping (my favorite thing to do ever), I cried about 5 times over pretty much NOTHING, and it all changes within 5 minutes!!!!!!!! I am NEVER like this when AF comes!! I am a *tad* emotional - I may cry during a sad movie, but never for no reason!! I also might snap DH's head off over something dumb, but never the waiter who just was being nice and brought be extra dipping sauce. I feel totally different than I do when AF is approaching I am just so sick of feeling this way - I swear I don't even feel like myself anymore. It's like I'm watching myself act this way and I can't stop it. Aside from the HORRIBLE emotional problems I am having a few physical one's also. I am so tired, so friggen tired. I've been coming home for the last few days to nap during my 1 hour lunch break, I got to bed super early, I napped 3 times today, I'm like a zombie!! My boobs are making me cry. I have to hold them to support them when I walk, they have a general dull, achy feeling in them, they are heavy and slightly firmer (hard), and they are getting sharp pains through them ever so often - it hurts terribly The only other thing physically that is bothering me is my lower abdomen. I sorta have very mild achy cramps in my lower abdomen and lower back, but I'm also having really sharp pains in the dead center of my lower abdomen. They come and go but mostly come and it's making me I just don't understand what is going on with me, my body, or my emotions. When DH got home from work I just busted out in tears and laid in bed with him and cried on his chest for about an hour. I don't feel like AF is coming, this is never how I act when she comes. So if it's not here, the what is it? I wish if AF were going to come she would just show so this can all go away. I feel so upset right now - I'm in pain, I can't quit having terrible mood spells and crying spells, and I just feel like I could sleep for a week straight.
I'm really sorry this post was so long ladies, but I just really needed to get that off of my chest. Maybe someone can offer some words of encouragement, or shed some light on what might be going on, or share personal experience - anything would be welcomed and appreciated.
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Apr 27th, 2008, 03:07 AM
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I'm Currently Feeling: | Well, Here is my Honest answer...
These are all very good symptoms!!! I suggest testing First thing in the morning!!!!
Now with that said.... These can also be pre af symptoms...  I have to say that the Mind is a powerfull thing... and from my personal experence, I notice my Pre AF symptoms and body more now that Im ttc... So try to relax while ttc and not think anything of it..... because it only makes the symptoms stand out even more....
But really..... i would take that test Missy and I am wishing you a BFP....  | | | | Status: Offline
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Apr 27th, 2008, 03:11 AM
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I'm Currently Feeling: | Quote:
Originally Posted by Suz Well, Here is my Honest answer...
These are all very good symptoms!!! I suggest testing First thing in the morning!!!!
Now with that said.... These can also be pre af symptoms...  I have to say that the Mind is a powerfull thing... and from my personal experence, I notice my Pre AF symptoms and body more now that Im ttc... So try to relax while ttc and not think anything of it..... because it only makes the symptoms stand out even more....
But really..... i would take that test Missy and I am wishing you a BFP....  | I know these can all be AF symptoms, but my AF symptoms NEVER are this bad and they always come 1-2 days before AF arrives, not 7!!! I've tested since 6DPO (I know, I'm a POAS addict)  and plan to continue testing until I get my BFP or AF does show. To be honest I would rather AF show NOW if I'm not PG than to have to deal with this for another week - at least I could get on with my life.....  | | | | Status: Offline
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Apr 27th, 2008, 04:16 AM
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I'm Currently Feeling: |  I can understand....
Never put your life on hold for TTC.... It will drive you crazy.... I sware I get symptoms the day after I BD around Ovulation Time... Like I said the Mind is a powerfull thing... So I have learned to put it all in the back of my head... I try to not think about any twing ache or cramp... It drives me mad... That is the joys of TTC.... (sarcasim...  )
But Hopefully for you these are Pregnancy symptoms...  | | | | Status: Offline
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Apr 27th, 2008, 08:59 AM
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I'm Currently Feeling: | Hi, like Suz said these symptoms look promising and I would just keep testing but it is early so don't give up hope yet!
You sound very stressed and this is not going to help matters. Even though you are knackered I think you should go for a walk with OH or by yourself now and then, as gentle exercise can help and can clear your head.
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Apr 27th, 2008, 09:35 AM
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I'm Currently Feeling: | I agree with everyone else! Your symptoms sound very promising indeed, however at my old age i have experienced really crazy af symptoms in the past...
I always try to hope for the best and expect the worst
TRY  to relax and test 14 pov, is my advice.
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Apr 27th, 2008, 11:10 AM
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I'm Currently Feeling: | Well all those things you said sound good. I know how the mind works, after years of ttc I know that you can think things so hard that you sense them, and you make your body experience symptoms just out of pure will.
Although I would keep testing - Hopefully you will get a BFP  | | | | Status: Offline
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Apr 27th, 2008, 11:33 AM
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I'm Currently Feeling: | You have just described I felt just before I got my BFP in Jan - from around 6dpo I started feeling terrible and by the time I tested I had to hold my boobs when walking and was sleeping non-stop!
Having some slight twinges this time, but nothing like last time so sure I will get BFN on the 6th!
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Apr 27th, 2008, 13:37 PM
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I'm Currently Feeling: | The reason I am feeling this way is because I have a little bean growing inside me! I got my  this morning on a dollar tree test, and equate test, and then a CB digi! | | | | Status: Offline
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Apr 27th, 2008, 13:50 PM
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I'm Currently Feeling: | fantastic news lovey! xx | | | | Status: Online
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