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Old Mar 14th, 2010, 05:53 AM   #21
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i am so down. i lost baby in october and another in december along with my tube. and am a bit of a rollercoaster. i can't stand to look at oh this morning. sometimes feel like taking Holly and walking away. i know this is the 1st month ttc again after the surgery but i feel so disheartened. i should be sitting here with an enormous bump but i am sitting here sorely tempted to go into work and cover as i so fed up! sorry for the rant girlies xxx


 
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Old Mar 14th, 2010, 06:07 AM   #22
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i am so down. i lost baby in october and another in december along with my tube. and am a bit of a rollercoaster. i can't stand to look at oh this morning. sometimes feel like taking Holly and walking away. i know this is the 1st month ttc again after the surgery but i feel so disheartened. i should be sitting here with an enormous bump but i am sitting here sorely tempted to go into work and cover as i so fed up! sorry for the rant girlies xxx
You carry on girly you are so INTITLED TO !!!
You are a very strong young woman, you have a daugher already !, then it will happen again , you may feel like all the odds are against you, but there are thousands upon thousands of women out there who have gotten pregnant with 1 tube and with no tubes and had to have IVF. My dearest friend lost a tube to an eptopic a few years ago but two years ago had a beautiful little boy so please please give yourself a chance to get yourself together you have been on a hell of a journey but when oyu are ok in side yourself and you are settled then you will be able to try again and feel happy with yourself to do that.
At the moment you are not ready , by reading what you have written, Honey you have to give yourself time to heal , and then time will treat you well.
( sorry im a pyschologist and its a horrible habit), i hope i havent offended you but i feel for you adn want to see you well and happy again.
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Old Mar 14th, 2010, 06:15 AM   #23
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i am so down. i lost baby in october and another in december along with my tube. and am a bit of a rollercoaster. i can't stand to look at oh this morning. sometimes feel like taking Holly and walking away. i know this is the 1st month ttc again after the surgery but i feel so disheartened. i should be sitting here with an enormous bump but i am sitting here sorely tempted to go into work and cover as i so fed up! sorry for the rant girlies xxx
You carry on girly you are so INTITLED TO !!!
You are a very strong young woman, you have a daugher already !, then it will happen again , you may feel like all the odds are against you, but there are thousands upon thousands of women out there who have gotten pregnant with 1 tube and with no tubes and had to have IVF. My dearest friend lost a tube to an eptopic a few years ago but two years ago had a beautiful little boy so please please give yourself a chance to get yourself together you have been on a hell of a journey but when oyu are ok in side yourself and you are settled then you will be able to try again and feel happy with yourself to do that.
At the moment you are not ready , by reading what you have written, Honey you have to give yourself time to heal , and then time will treat you well.
( sorry im a pyschologist and its a horrible habit), i hope i havent offended you but i feel for you adn want to see you well and happy again.
Tina
Wow your good Mrs Psychologist!

Mrs Roughton I am so sorry for what you have been through, Inkdchick is right though, you can only start trying again when you are ready and there are many happy stories to give you lots of hope


 
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Old Mar 14th, 2010, 06:28 AM   #24
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i am so down. i lost baby in october and another in december along with my tube. and am a bit of a rollercoaster. i can't stand to look at oh this morning. sometimes feel like taking Holly and walking away. i know this is the 1st month ttc again after the surgery but i feel so disheartened. i should be sitting here with an enormous bump but i am sitting here sorely tempted to go into work and cover as i so fed up! sorry for the rant girlies xxx
You carry on girly you are so INTITLED TO !!!
You are a very strong young woman, you have a daugher already !, then it will happen again , you may feel like all the odds are against you, but there are thousands upon thousands of women out there who have gotten pregnant with 1 tube and with no tubes and had to have IVF. My dearest friend lost a tube to an eptopic a few years ago but two years ago had a beautiful little boy so please please give yourself a chance to get yourself together you have been on a hell of a journey but when oyu are ok in side yourself and you are settled then you will be able to try again and feel happy with yourself to do that.
At the moment you are not ready , by reading what you have written, Honey you have to give yourself time to heal , and then time will treat you well.
( sorry im a pyschologist and its a horrible habit), i hope i havent offended you but i feel for you adn want to see you well and happy again.
Tina
Wow your good Mrs Psychologist!

Mrs Roughton I am so sorry for what you have been through, Inkdchick is right though, you can only start trying again when you are ready and there are many happy stories to give you lots of hope
Thank you Hun,
I just like to help people and children which is what im trained to do ( child pyschologist) but the main training is with all ages , its a rewarding job when you can get work, bloody recession has a stop to a lot of this speicalist help and no-one is helping them and they think its ok - WELL IT'S NOT !!!!! sorry it always gets me going How are you xx


 
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Old Mar 14th, 2010, 06:49 AM   #25
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I am a bit better today actually, someone told me to live every day like its my birthday and thats what I am going to try and do... maybe soon I will get a present!


 
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