Hi everybody yayy new friends.

Ya it sucks, although funnily enough emotionally I am fine this month. Thought I would be alot worse.

Today was a really bad day, I jinxed myself, said to my hubby, wow I have no bad cramps. I have just spent the last 2 hours crying with the pain, I took2 nurofen and nothing, so I took a third An hour ago and only now are the cramps easing. I think I will have to speak to my doc, it is like every month I get worse and worse pain. I also get bad backache around ov right up to af. So basically I've self diagnosed myself with 'endometriosis'. ha. My hubby laughs at me and blames google. But it can't all be in my head surely.

Keyahopes, that would be nice A bfp for your birthday, Your only a youngen. i'm 32 and it's the first time I have thought wow my clock really is ticking.

How did you get on with the softcups, I'm a bit apprehensive about getting it in right and not trapping sperm out?

Oh I am also going organic due to another article I read

Anyway cheer up girls, we will get there, fingers crossed

I'm CD1 today with a 32 day cycle so I'll join you on the mission for a BFP:0)

Oh I had a big mug of strong cappuccino this morn! mmmm as I had given it up. I also bought a bar of choc for tonight but iwas so sick earlier I didn't have it, hm how much pain I was in.

im on cd 1 today too

I ave just ordered some preseed anyone else use it?

[QUOTE=WANBMUM;4663774]Would anybody like to be my friend And help me through another month of fun, tears and tantrums?
[/

Hi Wanbmum, i am on cd 2 , i am sure this is gonna be a long month hopefully not stressful one
anyway i try to remain positive , but being almost 32 makes it something though...

this month i decided to start temping , and using OPK and maybe softcups ( i guess i could stop my list of to do s here

have you tried OPK or spftcups , if yes can you ladies give me any advice

thank you

Hey. I recognise some names here.. sorry af came.

Hello to new friends!

Well im on CD1 today.. was just about to test, good job checked CP first. Saved a hpt for next month! Will be temping from CD5 as away til then. Will try and get some opks. First month using i got strong positive. Second month - nothing. So will see how it goes.

26/27 day cycle so thats the only good thing. So testing / waiting for af on the 4th April. Easter! Hope my easter egg is in a very different form to chocolate :-)

Heyy all, how goes it? Me doin alright, just uncomfortable with the cramps. At least I got a decent nite's sleep! WANBMUM, I can't even imagine how bad you must feel, if you end up having to take pain medications!!
I sw your post about endo, I really hope its not the case. Don't worry, I think you will get your BFP this month and then all this will seem like a thing of the past.

Anyone on here who has tried preseed? Wondering if I should apply it before we get started or right before "ahem" insertion? Any suggestions? The softcups idea is kinda scary. Not sure if I wanna try it any time soon. But who knows, right?

Nixlix, I know you from the other thread, sorry AF got you. So what's everyone else planning to do differently this time around?

hi girls,

how are you all feeling? I am drained, quite literally ok it wasnt that funny.

Ok lovealittle and keyahopes I used preseed just for one month before. I heard lots of good successful stories from it. Keyahopes, if i remember correctly you have to apply it before the 'fun starts' but I am sure you can do either. whatever works for you.
Just to be aware, in case you are not, preseed is great as a natural lube if you need it, I originally thought it really helped the little swimmers go, but if you read the packet completely it can actually dilute the sperm, so if you did have any 'sperm issues' that you know of, they dont really recommend it as it can have the reverse effect. If he is Mr supersperm I am sure it is fine. So because I dont know I only used it that one month. But obviously we are all different, I have heard of lots of girls using it successfully.

Yes I was the same with the softcups, thinking urrrgghhh, but the more I am getting paranoid and OBSESSIVE each month I think why not have a go, at this stage what havent I tried?
Actually I did read somebody used to get their OH to cool his bits in the fridge before BD - now there is persistance from the OH ey. I bet that was a sight. Hope they remembered to close the Kitchen curtains

Anyway guys, hope yall are ok and rearing to go for another month.

Appreciate the response wanbmum - I just finally figured out your name - I am a bit slow sometimes!!