blondyblueyes

So last year i accidently got pregnant, and when i found out i was i have never been happier. My husband and his family were over joyed. My mom could not stop talking about it. Then the day i found out and told everyone i started spotting i knew then something was wrong. Everyone reassured me that everything was ok even the doctor. I knew they were wrong but i hoped for the best within the next couple days i miscarried. I never knew that much pain i mean i should have been over 4 months prego and the test of my hormone count should less than a month along. It was hard but i have always had a love for kids so after that we waited a few months and decided we want to try again. its been over a month and i still cant get pregnant we dont use any kind of protection and when i ask a doctor they pretty much say just take care of your self. I take care of my self and i just want so much to be a mom. I just found out my little 18 year old sister is pregnant and i am so happy for her but she got pregnant and just started having sex. i have been trying for so long that it breaks my heart that i am not pregnant yet... i know everything happens for a reason its just not fair. i need help to figure out different ways to know my best time to try. I would love anyones opinion. I have a friend who told me about this site and her and a friend of hers on this site just found out they are pregnant.. please help me

VanWest

Have you tried to track your cycle? That's what I did and it worked

blondyblueyes

i was told about tryin to track it how exactly do i do it..

VanWest

I used something like this.. can't find the site I used at the time since it was last June. Hope this helps, and good luck!
http://www.americanpregnancy.org/get...ncalendar.html

NeyNey

So you said it's been over a month?

Honey, I'm sorry for your loss, but you can't panic about it just yet. It takes an average women around 6 cycles to fall pregnant. Some longer, but don't get too stressed yet.

You can try fertilityfriend.com. They have some great advice for charting your cycle.

good luck
And welcome to B&B

tansey

sorry for your loss!
There are lots of us who are TTC after a MC. It can take a while but good luck. There is loads of advice on here!

hopeful4baby

I'm so sorry for your loss! I've gone through two of them myself. I know exactly how you feel. It happened the same way for me. Told all my family, friends, was so excited and then I started spotting and 2 days after I bled. Right afterwards you I had such a hole in my heart, I wanted to fill in desperately and continue what I've started. The pain will ease with the time and you will fall pregnant again. It may take few more months, but it will, you'll see.

mama2connor

I'm so sorry for your loss hun. Bare in mind though it's only been a month and there is still plenty of time. My partner & I tried for 15 month before we conceived and sadly i miscarried at 6 weeks. I hope you get your soon!!

blondyblueyes

thanks everyone for all of your advice i teared up a little i did realize so many people would be here for me i am so glad my friend turned me to this site.

porkpie1981

I also just had a miscarriage and was nearly 13 weeks when i decided to go ahead with the d & C. Its been nearky 5 weeks so im like urself. Its soo hard but im going to wait a few months and try again as im in uni and its best to leave it so i have the baby in he summer or not near end of term. What in saying is i know the wait seems so long but dont panick over not being pregnant in 1 month as thats very short.