Well you all might remeber me with my wonderful SIL not....

So yesterday i get home, so happy to be alive and healthy and TTC. My MIL goes all bannanas as my SIL retrenched yesterday, at 28weeks pregnant

Now i know everybody are going "SHAME" poor women, and im like if you don't want to learn your lesson you will unfortunately learn it the hard way...

Reason for retrenchment- from January 08 - April 08, since she found out she was expecting to date she has been off of work for a total of 42 working days...
Out of 42 days off "sick" she has for 25days a doctors note...
Please note as from jan to date there has been 64 working days, so she was at work 22 days so far this year.... Only to find out she was off for an additional 18days last year since she started working there in september 07.

Now i know as well as anyone what is she going to do now, in SA when you get retrenched you are not intitled to Unemployment, she will have no medical aid cover, and her DH looks like he is packing his bags 11weeks before the due date of their son Gavin....

Now every women is going what an asshole, but no... please reconsidder, her DH was not ready for a baby but she behind his back was also using Clomid to catch him, they were going thru the proseses of divorce when she announced her , when she was 4 months pregnant, she assaulted her husband with a stick, he had 4 broken ribs...
She has driven her husband off the road with her car, she smached his windscreen at 5months pregnant with her hand, and last thursday as her DH tried to get away from her abuse she jumped infront of uncoming traffic to get him not to leave her....

Please note she is 29weeks pregnant....

What am me and DH as human beings going to do, as family and the childs godperants going to do, as my MIL and FIL are looking at taking away her child from her as she has still not stopped drinking and smoking...

Please note she is 29weeks pregnant

Now here we all are women praying for that , and then you get my SIL who doesn't give a damn about the precious gift growing inside her.. She has even said "i can't wait to get it out of me"

I don't know if I'm allowed to post here but I'm sorry you have to watch this. Unfortunately not everyone appreciates a baby.

Sorry if i'm not meant to post here but Thats disgusting that poor baby she doesnt deserve the gift of being a mum and her poor husband i just hope your IL's can do something to give that baby the life it deserves. Some people are so selfish.sorry you have to deal with that GRRR

That's terrible! Don't know what you can do! Hope your family manage to work something out for the best!

God that terrible!!

Geez Louise...When I hear stories like that, it makes me think that everyone should get a license before they're allowed to have a child.

thats awful! she sounds completely nuts!

Wow that's terrible. Some people can be amazingly selfish. Must be horrible for you to have all this going on all around you

It is horrible but unfortunately true, i will inform all on what is happening tomorrow as i have not heard any news from Mil or SIL....

Very doubtfull that she will still have a job, and DH would probably be out already... will keep all posted....

Lets just say a prayer for this poor unborn child, to hopefully have a normal childhood

Sorry for being thick but what exactly is retrenchment tho?