Me and my boyfriend had unprotected sex for the first time earlier as we want to have a baby.

But since we did.. ive felt really sick.

Could this have anything to do with us having unprotected sex ?!

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It's not abnormal - I felt sick most of the first month TTC, think it was psychological, I also had the effects of coming off the pill which I'm sure gave me loads of early pregnancy signs, it's all very cruel!

I think morning sickness tends to happen around two weeks after conception.

Ahh good (:

Thanks for the quick reply.

Another thing im also worried about.

because this is our first time without protection, obviously its not `100% positive that i will be. but the thing is.. on july 10th imtouring america with my mate and her nan and grandad for 3 weeks. i come back july 31st. this means, if i am pregnant first time.. ill be around 3 monthss whilst im away.

Ofc ill be flying quite a bit, and being very activie being out all day everyday.

Could this be bad for me in anyway ?

im just worried that im going to have really bad morning sickness or tiredness which is going to ruin the holiday.

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There's loads of information about it here -

http://www.pregnancy-bliss.co.uk/fly...pregnancy.html

You normally need a drs note if you're flying after 28 weeks. You can check with your dr before you go anway.

I'd love morning sickness

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Where in America are you going???


Germany> America... I don't ever want to go back to the states.. except to see my family!

If i am pregnant ill only be 12/16 weeks. I will proberly only just be starting to show right ?

would i be able to like go on rides and stuff ?

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I wouldn't .. I'm from Orlando, Florida... home of theme parks.. It says it's not reccomended to ride if you have heard conditions, fake armms/ body parts, and prego.

Im going to L.A, Las Vegas, New York, Chicago and San Francisco.

The thing is i dont really want to tell my mate that i am pregnant. Because like her nan and grandad have paid for all this holiday for both her and me, and if i turn up and tell her im pregnant, itll just ruin our holiday cus we've got 3 theme parks booked to visit. So its all gonna be a bit :/ tbh.

What do you think my chances of getting pregnant are ?

Well i know thats a stupid question because nobody knows. but im due on around the 8th of May, So thats still like 2/3 weeks away.

I think if you're TTC a baby then that has to be your first priority. I don't see how telling someone your pregnant if you're trying can be a bad thing? or ruin a holiday?

I mean there are always going to be holidays. I'd be estatic to be pregnant.

but thats just me.

It's far too early to know if you're pregnant. You have at least 2 weeks to wait if you've just ovulated.

If you're TTC then best of luck.

Yeahh it is.

Id pick a baby over a holiday anyday, i want nothing more than my own little precious life that i can build and take care of.

But like id just feel really selfish, because my friends nan and grandad have paid for me for this holiday. its probely cost them £10,000 just for me, for all the things we are doing. and to turn around and say ' oh im pregnant, i cant come sorry' is just down right discraceful i think.

I would be still alright to go though wouldnt i ? i mean ive resaerched it all and it said flights allow women up to 28 weeks pregnant to fly, so if i WAS pregnant, id only be 2/3 months, so i should be alright, yes ?

But me and my boyfriend dont want to tell people we are actually trying for a baby, theyd all think we were a bunch of idiots, we want to say it was an accident but theres no way i could get rid of it.

We thought it through and it really does giveme butterflies just thinking about it. My boyfriends mother, and my boyfriends brother have just had a baby, one a boy one a girl, so whatevr i was to have id be having all of their toys and clothes to pass down (: which takes a huge weight off my shoulders. But i am also in a job, and my boyfriend is currently looking for a job so we will be aerning my own money.

I did plan to start college in september,doing childcare, i chose tat just because i dont know what else i want to do. So if i am pregnant, i am going to put of college for a few years, hopefully by then i will know exactly what i want to do and can go into it. My boyfriend is going to continue going to college andhave a part time job, and we will get help and suport of my and his family ( i hope .. if they are not too mad when they find out ! ).

Ive researched more or less everything, ive already decided me n my bf are going to parent and child classes, i want to do some sort of pregnancy excercieses, maybe water aerobics.

We finish school in 3/4 weeks, so by the time i start getting any syptoms or whatever, it should be more or less over, thank god.

its just this america trip doubting me, because it is a once ina lifetime opportunity.
I think if im not pregnant this time, we are not going to try again untill i come back from america at the end of july. then we would have nothing tow orry about



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