TTC is a nightmare when dealing with people close to you and are pg. When ttc ds, everyone around me was getting pg, they all knew we were ttc, but none of them showed an ounce of concern. That's what I found the hardest. My sis in law had 2 in the space of us ttc and she never asked once how we were feeling! Both pg's were a mistake and had the cheek to come to me to ask for help getting tests. Of course, I was nothing but supportive, but it was killing me inside and that never entered her mind.

This time round, my cousin has been ttc for 2 years and has just had a BFP and I couldn't be happier for her. I think it makes all the difference if people just understand what you're going through and don't just ignore the fact that they could be upsetting you.

Anyway, we've all got each other on here and at least we understand what everyones going though and are not alone x

Don't blame yourself for how you feel! We are all entitled to our thoughts and feelings! I can completely understand what you are going through right now and yeah it is hard, especially when you feel like you can't tell many people about your ttc troubles. I am sure she isn't meaning to make you upset and you have to remember that. Like many have said...they would be the same way knowing they were preg. I know you are happy for her and are being supportive and that is what matters. Having those other feelings is fine too !! Your not being mean, your just being human

I think everyone has had a touch of the green eye monster at some point or another. Its normal. Once you have owned you feel it then you can deal with it

Keep positive, your time will come ...

We all know how you're feeling and ttc brings out the worst in us all at some points. Wishing you a soon.

You guys are seriously sooo great and it's such a relief to have people to vent with/to who don't judge or gasp. Thank you, again, for being so supportive. Times like these I'm so glad to have stumbled onto this board and found all of you wonderful ladies. Lots of hugs to all
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